If a 'married' friend of mine flirts with me constantly, is it OK to flirt back?
2006-12-20 08:44:56 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just harmless flirting...
2006-12-20 08:48:57 · update #1
What in the world would make that right?
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2006-12-20 08:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it really isn't. Apart from the fact that married folks, friends or not, should be a no-fly zone for flirting, you could be setting yourself up for some real trouble. Take a step back - it just aint worth it.
2006-12-20 08:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by belmyst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Harmless flirting + apathy for other people's lives + selfish thinking = a terrible mess you may not be able to get out of.
2006-12-20 08:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by cute_chocolate_buggie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting can sometimes be a start of more to come. I'd examine this friendship. is it worth the risk? Then again, it could be completely harmless and innocent.
2006-12-20 08:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not. Now ask yourself this, "would it be OK for someone to flirt with my husband and try to steal him away from me were I married"? Do Unto Other As You Would Have Them Do Unto You. Stick by that rule and you will have a GOOD LIFE.
2006-12-20 10:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now.....do YOU think it is the right thing to flirt with a 'married' man?I really suggest not to.If he constantly filrts with you then tell him to stop be cause he is a married man! If his marrige ends i don't think you want to be the blame for it.When he got married he made a vow not to love anyone else except his wife and kids. Please ask your self if he cheats on YOU how would you feel?
2006-12-20 08:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by dedeanna101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't... just because she flirts with you doesn't mean its ok to flirt back, if the person they are married to is your friend you wouldn't do it....
2006-12-20 08:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by Justin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's see here ...if I was the wife and I found out that my friend was flirting with my husband...I will have to beat you and then beat my husband...let me tell you something you do not flirt with a married man...where is your honour to your friend? Why do you want to flirt back..are you wanting him or something...get over yourself!!!! By the way I do understand he starts it first...perhaps let your friend know that he flirts.....
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2006-12-20 08:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't. He isn't free to flirt with you and in a sense he is being unfaithful and disrespectful to his wife just by flirting. You will be disrespectful to his wife by flirting back. Think about it this way .... if he were your husband would you want someone flirting with him?
2006-12-20 08:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO...... Sure we all flirt a bit, but all of the time means they are interested and obviously too interested if either or both is married. Stay away, if it continues confront them about it!!
2006-12-20 08:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by gwendolynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.
He or she is MARRIED. That means they have a responsibility to their spouse. If they want you, as in WANT you, they need to divorce their husband/wife and try to win your heart then. And if their willing to give up a hopefully healthy relationship with someone they are married to, you have to question their morals. Remember, they just might do the same to you.
2006-12-20 08:48:15 · answer #11 · answered by indifferent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋