i am 7months pregnant and my mom doesnt know yet and my skool nurse knows that im pregnant but i begged her to not tell my mom the nurse said i should be getting out of skool bcuz im growing n its hard for me to go up n down the stairs but how am i going to tell my mom im having twins one boy n one girl n im huge but i wear baggy stuff n my mom dont notice wat can i do???????please help me
2006-12-20 08:43:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
my dad takes me to the doctors my mom is working omg
2006-12-20 08:48:44 · update #1
i know im pregnant with twins ive been to the doctor u know
2006-12-20 08:49:33 · update #2
my mom doesnt notice nothing n the skool nurse wants me to go home n get homeschooled bcuz ive been bleeding a bit
2006-12-20 08:52:52 · update #3
You're lying....if you are pregnant with twins and know the sex of them, it means you have been to the doctor. No doctor can legally treat you without parental consent. Get off the computer and get a life.
PEOPLE WHO ARE ACTUALLY GIVING ADVICE TO THIS PERSON......SHE SAID SHE IS 7 MONTHS PREGNANT WITH TWINS. SHE WOULD BE HUGE! HER MOM WOULD ALREADY KNOW, UNLESS HER MOTHER IS BLIND. SHE IS LYING!!!!!!
2006-12-20 08:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
You have LESS than 2 months to tell her. And you are going to have to. You need to just sit her down, and say "mom, I am pregnant." Theres no easy way to do something like this. I recommend you tell her ASAP though.
Its stupid that the nurse says to drop school by the way. I wouldnt if I were you, and hopefully you can get your moms help.
PS..
your dad knows but not your mom? how dysfunctional is your situation...yeah your mom works but that doesnt mean she doesnt notice you every now and then.
Notice everyone got thumbs down votes on this except for the person calling you a liar? Come on...this sounds very unrealistic...but if you are truthful than you have to tell your mom...especially if you live with her! How the heck does your dad know but not your mom??
2006-12-20 08:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by dianek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How does anyone not notice your belly? Baggy clothes is not going to hide a big round stomach holding twins inside. Does your mom not even look at you? I think if you are not willing to be mature about this and tell your parents then maybe you just aren't ready to be a mom.
2006-12-20 10:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom as soon as possible. Hopefully you can tell both your parents, but I'm pretty sure your dad isn't around judging by what you've written here. I also recommend all of you getting some counseling.
And for goodness sake, LISTEN to the older, wiser people around you... teachers, conselors, nurses, doctors. No matter how scared you are, do the right thing. You are going to have two little lives to care for very soon and you will need all the help you can get.
Good luck.
2006-12-20 08:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest going to planned parenthood to see if they could help and tell them your situation or see if there is a pregnant teen home you could get into. It is illegal for your mother to kick you out but I'm sure if anyone made her let you back in, she would make your life worse and they boyfriend would too, plus you don't know what that boyfriend will do to you and your child. Why didn't you just tell the judge what happened to get him locked up in jail when he fractured your nose? Where is the dad of your baby? I hope you are still seeing your doctor and have medical coverage, if you don't, let planned parenthood know and I'm sure they can point you in the right direction.
2016-05-23 01:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your mom now.
Remember, she loves you and the reason you are scared to tell her is because you know that she will not have a good reaction, but most definetly, she will help you in any way possible.
You can't really hide it for too long since you are due in about two months. You will need help, becuase you are a child youself, and your mom is the best person for that.
I know that you are scared, most likely petrified, but turst me, it harded to bring up a child - in you case two - then telling your mom.
What you need to know that her shock will come and go - you are HER baby. You need to be followed properly by a doctor and need to ensure that you are all ready for birth.
Sweety, I wish you the best of luck. Don't listen to other morons before me, people are freakin ignorant.
2006-12-20 08:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell your mother. You are too far along for her to make you abort the children,...legally anyway. Also to the people reading this...havent you heard of doctor-patient privilege...she can been treated and the doctor doesnt have to tell her parents-nothing-unless they wanna take the chance of being sued. If you say your mother is busy...leave a note...i guarantee you she will get it. Also...i do wonder how you are hiding the pregnancy so well...are you a chunky girl? and this is why your mother hasnt noticed.
2006-12-20 11:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was 15 when I got pregnant the first time.I was so scared to tell my Mom.I got my bestfriend to come with me while I told her.My Mom was mad about an hour and then she was OK.She really helped me out and I don't think I could have done it without her.You just need to be brave and get it over with.I promise you will feel so much better once you have told her.Plus you have alot of planning to do for when those babies get here.
2006-12-20 08:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How could you be that far along with TWINS without your mom noticing? How do you even know it is twins, and the sexes of the babies? You need prenatal care. Tell your mom right now.
2006-12-20 08:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need too tell your mom for your babies sake soonner or lter she will find out and let mee tell you something you are running out of time your mom is going to be really dissapointed if she found out for someone else than you dont let someone else tell her im a mom and i know i would wanted to hear something like that from my daugther and not form anybody else your mom will understand maybe she will be in shock at first but moms forgive everything together you and her can find a way to help you keep stidying after the babies are born with raising them i think that know its the time if you dont know hpow to say it wright a letter and give it to our mom and tell her to read it after you left but do it know because you are going to be a mom soon
2006-12-20 08:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by user 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
r u serious??? i was pregnant when i was 15 and had my son at 16 and my mom noticed immediately, even before i gained any weight. she noticed i hadn't asked for tampons or anything for about 2 months, so by the time i was about 3 months she knew. so your mom really must not pay attention to you and what you are doing or you are lying!!!!!!
any btw i went to school up until the day before i gave birth and i GRADUATED WITH HONORS a year later, so if you are telling the truth at all your really stupid if u quit school
2006-12-20 08:49:31 · answer #11 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋