2006-12-20 08:25:12 · 30 answers · asked by p_a_m_i_e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
some people are getting pissy b/c I asked this question. It is just a question if you don't want to answer then don't. I only ask b/c I have a hard time with that kind of stuff and my spouse I was just wondering if other people had the same problems and what they do/did about it. Simmer Down Sparky!
2006-12-20 08:53:35 · update #1
I wish I married the woman I really fell in love with. The one I fell in love with before meeting and marrying my wife. I regret it a lot. I keep wondering what might have been. What could have been. My advice to anyone out there about to start the journey into marriage. Marry the person you really love.
2006-12-20 16:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by maj.pollack 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What I desire may be different from what you desire. The fact is that too many of us remain unsatisfied because for 1: we are afraid of rejection and 2: the spouse/partner may not fully deliver what we have conceived in our mind. I think that many of us have desires unknown to our spouse/partner and the handling of such is to live life with what we have while we fantasize a different world. A very important note : the neighbor next door appears( I said appears) ready to deliver until he/she cohabitates and we are back to square one.
2006-12-20 10:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think my spouse knows... I desire a s e x life with her. But alas she has absolutely no appreciation for s e x at all.
Within this, there is a whole list of specific s e x activities that I desire, that of course I have no chance of actualizing.
2006-12-20 08:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pamie, there are a lot of things sexually we don't share with partners over fear of their reaction to it. And a lot of its not as perverted as people may think. It may be to do it more often, roll play, etc.
If you aren't talking about sexually then its a desire to not to go to the inlaws for the holidays....lol
BTW.........nice pic........sophisticated is always sexier than slutty. Too bad more women don't learn that.
2006-12-20 08:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That we had more of a traditional type of marriage... I would prefer that she didn't have to work and could stay home with our kids
2006-12-20 22:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, he knows all my quirks. That's what makes a great partner. You don't always have to tell them things, they are already in tune to it
2006-12-20 08:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I told her I want to have a threesome, but she doesn't how serious I am. I already have the other woman picked out.
2006-12-20 08:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So many desires
So many fantasies
And a partner who doesn't give a damn ... even when told
So what the hell
2006-12-20 08:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me and my ex hubby had that problem .. we did not talk so much about our wants and needs..and he was very jealous type so it made talking harder... my and my now bf talk about everything and how to make things better .. everything about our sex life to our home life and work life.. so i would have to say their isn't anything
2006-12-20 09:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I desire you
shhhh she has not a clue
2006-12-20 08:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋