I know people that think i am weird because of things that i can't go tell you because the story goes on and on. They act weird around me and never talk to me. i feel like curling up into a ball and becoming invisable when they are around because i have done some pretty embarassing things in front of them. They never laugh at me, but i can tell they think i am a complete bird brain. I don't know how to deal with that. I really need help.
2006-12-20 07:53:33 · 8 answers · asked by tz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As log as you are believing in what you are doing ...don't change ..be your self ..you don't have to satisfy all people ..it is their problem you have to be self confident this is WHO you are whether they accept or not ..you re unique
2006-12-20 08:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Silent tear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not doing anything wrong heres my advice. I am a 28 year old mom with a 9 year old daughter. They think my daughter is weird. She is so nice and outgoing. They are just jealous of you. You are a free thinker, you don't follow the crowd and if you do that can get you into trouble. People like to pick on the ones that are weak. Show them you don't care what they think of you. You have to believe in your self don't let ppl hold you down you have a whole big world out there with miserable ppl that want to control you and bring you down to their level don't let that happen. In the end the only one that really matters and will be there for you no matter what are your parents and God. Some day this is if your in school it won't even matter all this crap you have to go through now. You will be the winner in the end and all the ppl that followed the crowd and have a one minded brain will be the losers not you. I am also speaking from a lot of experience. I felt like I wanted to be invisible at times wanted to die. I'm glad I didn't though its a long hard road but you will make it. I saw a lot of ppl screw up there lives hooked on drugs and have babies by several different daddies no jobs just basically losers. So chin up stay away from those ppl and find another way to occupy your time something that makes you happy even if it isn't something someone else would think was weird. Be true to yourself otherwise your a phony and a fake.
2006-12-20 16:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anne E. W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can relate, because I have been called weird all my life, but I am just me. I have had problems, and I have done plenty of embarrassing things, unfortunately. It used to really bother me....until i came to the conclusion that EVERYBODY is just a little weird, and that everybody ( um, yes even those paragons of perfection that act like jerks around you) makes mistakes that make them LOOK weird. Putting YOU down by their squirrel-y stares makes them feel better about THEIR weirdness.
These aren't ALL the people in the world, so move on and find other people to be around.
2006-12-20 16:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that it's easy, if you like who you are who cares! I think that as long as you like your self to **** what other people think. As long as you are happy it shouldnt matter what other people are thinking of you. When you are around them and they seems to act funny around you,let them know that this is how you are they either like it or not.
2006-12-20 15:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by KayKay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they're the weird ones. Since you don't say what it is that makes you unique, how can one give you an answer?
2006-12-20 15:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by RadAz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally embrace it and people eventully begin to understand that it is normal for me. Just ignore the other people if they don't understand you they are not worth your time.
2006-12-20 15:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just try to find some new friends. if they don't like you for who you are, then quit wasting your time on them
2006-12-23 10:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by tater_nater2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jut try and deal with it the best you can and don't change for ANYONE!
2006-12-20 16:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋