My husband left me for another woman in another province, with four kids after 5yrs of marriage. What 2 do?
We were married for five years, and have four kids. He came to Canada under my sponsorship. The first year he came he travelled back to his country, the second year he did the same, the third year he tried to do the same. He did not like staying at home, bonding with his children or me. In fact he went out all the time. I worked, paid the rent, bought the groceries, had the children, while he bought some groceries. He helped out with the cooking and the cleaning. Then one day the phone call came, it was her, he said that it was a friend. I told her not to call again. She did. I hung up and asked him what was going on. He that she was just a friend. I said I don't think so. I said what are you trying to do, don't you know that you have a family. He said that he loves his family, I said prove it. He never did. Shortly after I learned that he had a sex with her. After being in Cana
2006-12-20 07:43:50 · 6 answers · asked by Johnnie C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girl consider it a blessing he walked out. you dont need someone like that and he never loved you to begin with if he can do that to you and his kids. you and the kids are better off without him. be strong for the children and good luck!!!!
2006-12-20 07:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by elaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sad,but being married to a filipino man and seeing his friends do the same thing as your husband did to you i guess its quite normal for some foreign men! i would see if he has another family where he came from, im sorry . my husband told me when his brother left the philippines to come to the us he had to re marry so he could stay in the us! and so he left his wife and children in the philippines, and remarried a woman and had a son with her right away. i would be so ****in p*** if i were u!
2006-12-20 08:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by tolentino03@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh NO. LEAVE, its a blessing in diguise. You want someone that wants you, deserves you, and respects YOU. This man does NOT. YOu'll find someone who does, just be patient, let your heart mend, and enjoy life. Let that LOSER be someone else headache Trust me, he will be! Afterall, how you get them is how you lose them. She'll soon find this out! So smile shes done you a great deed!
2006-12-20 07:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by peacfulwar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to sound cold but the best thing you can do is wish him well and go on with your life , the most important thing you have to do is love and care for your children
2006-12-20 07:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by ivanhoe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go home to your family and stay there. Those damn Canadians.... screw everything up.
2006-12-20 08:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start collecting child support and move on, eh.
2006-12-20 07:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋