Okay. so i have been dating my current b/f for about 8 months now and we are rly seriuos. i do love him but i still have love for my ex. i mean my ex and i talk now but i still cant see myself dating him b/c he treated me badly and cheated on me with my (ex) b/f and is still involved with her. he cheats on her too and has with me but that was b4 my current b/f. so what do i do. there is temptation there and like feelings come back when he says some things to me. i mean he is not a bad person and has neva once hit me or anything like that. so what do i do. how do i get rid of these feelings. i mean i dont not eva wanna talk to him cuz he is still a good guy as just "friends" and i enjoy his company...i also enjoy having a lil "fun" with him to. so what do i do ???? PLZ HELP!
2006-12-20 07:27:41 · 5 answers · asked by khester05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you need to find out what true love really is and isn't. Read in the Bible I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" to find out. Love is patient and kind and seeks not its own way at the expense of others. Love like this is such that it will gladly give up its own life to save the life of the other person. If you don't have this kind of love for someone, then you aren't really in love, but are probably following lust, which is much different and can lead to much disappointment. This real love is what was meant for a couple to have in order to have a marriage last for the rest of their lives. Not having this kind of love is why there are so many divorces now. Cultivate this and you will grow into a relationship that will last. My wife and I have this and our marriage has lasted for over 28 years. Try it and you will not be disappointed.
2006-12-20 07:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being a total jerk! If you broke up with one guy, and now you're with another guy, the old relationship is OVER. Basically, the old boyfriend is a "player", and he's now playing you and messing up any chances you might have for a good relationship with the new guy; and YOU are letting him! Hvae you told the new boyfriend you're still hanging out with the old one? I am betting you haven't!
You need to decide if you are planning on moving on, and you need to let the current boyfriend know you are cheating on him (emotionally if not otherwise).
Basically, you aren't a very nice person.
Emotional cheating is still cheating. And you are being dishonest, and messing around with 2 guys without the new boyfriend knowing! Frankly, I think you and the old boyfriend deserve each other, and the new boyfriend deserves better!
2006-12-20 07:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by John1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a guy does not hit you doesn't make it o.k. to cheat on anyone. I hurt you and now you are thinking about hurting your current boy friend the same way. Are you for real you need to grow up. If a guy cheated on me especially with my best friend I would never give him the pleasure of being with me ever again. when you do that he does not respect you. He will treat ou like a joke and think he can treat you how ever he pleases. Sounds like you have a new guy who treats you good don't screw it up on someone who just wants to bring you down to his pathetic level
2006-12-20 07:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up. If he cheated on you, and then he cheated with you. And now you have a boyfriend and you are still talking to the looser and are thinking of cheating on your current boyfriend with the cheating x boyfriend. Are you listening to yourself here? Leave the looser alone. If you keep doing what you are doing you will keep getting what you got. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-20 07:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right on Glo!!!
2006-12-20 07:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋