I know he loves me, but it seems it's not "in love". And I want him to be "In Love" with me....Again...:)
2006-12-20 07:18:43 · 22 answers · asked by bunnjo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Can't. You can't just control emotions. Maybe you can ask him to do something that you both have done together in the past...like walking down memory lane?
2006-12-20 07:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooohhhh. Now I know what you mean.
At first I was going to say "you can't" get someone to fall back in love with you.
You are simply talking about reigniting the spark, bringing back some of the intial magic.
Just work at it.
Get out some old pictures of the two of you when you felt that feeling. Frame them and place them around where they are constant reminders. Re-live some of the old dates you had back then. Do things to show that those were some of the most magical times for you.
But also, be realistic. Realize that a lot of that initial butterflies in the stomach thing naturally fades over time. You are most fortunate that you know he loves you. That's what really matters.
2006-12-20 15:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably as many answers to this question as there are stars in the sky, but, if I had to find just one, I would say this: This person should be your friend first, then your best friend. Any good relationship, or falling in love with someone (in my own opinion) should begin with a great friendship. Good luck, and have a blessed holiday season.
2006-12-20 15:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Hammer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its a good idea for u to force him into fallin in love wit u.
if his nt in love wit u again i dont think u deserve that kinda relationship were u would be fightin to get a mans love wen someone else can give u better love.
Do wats best for u, and i think u deserve better.
2006-12-20 15:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by beyunceee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make people fall in love with you.they do or they don't. you want someone to love you for the way that yo are right now. i wish women would move on when these guys aren't in love with them. we'd be more empowered. stop wasting your time and move on. you could be missing mr right while waiting on mr wrong to fall in love with you.
2006-12-20 15:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by lookingforanswersandquestions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better that he loves you rather than be in love with you.these are 2 different things.being in love with love and you happen to be the person he is focusing this love.just let go of him,if he really loves you,he will be with you.don't try too hard,just show the best of your love,and it will be up to him to reciprocate that love back.
2006-12-20 15:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if it seems like he's trying and not succeding on trying to be inlove with you chance's are that he'll end up being like that with you for life. If it was ment to be, love should be in him already.
2006-12-20 15:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More details would help. If it's your husband I'd try surprising him with things. Pay more attention to him, buy him a little something special he'd like not like expensive but just something while you are at to let him know you are thinking of him. Make him his favorite food for dinner or dessert or something. Dress in clothes you know he likes that makes you look and feel sexy.
Men are like us in the way that they like to feel special and thought of just like we do.
2006-12-20 15:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by SheRa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to be the person you were when he first fell in love with you. Do all those nice things, try to think of all those things that you loved in the beginning we you first met each other.
2006-12-20 15:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't make someone love you and if you have to find ways to try and make them, then they aren't worth the effort.
2006-12-20 15:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by mvngs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋