should do an abortion. ???????????
2006-12-20 07:18:02 · 23 answers · asked by somebodysmamasoon 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That is a hard question to answer
It's your body so what do you think you should do
I'm sure you don't want to raise 2 children by yourself
2006-12-20 07:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bunky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's up to you. Make sure you can live with whatever you do. Keep in mind many people worry about money when they are expecting a baby. It's normal. So I don't think that's a good enough reason to have an abortion. If the father doesn't want to be part of the babies life then so be it. Yes, it will be harder. how about family? Will they help out with the baby?
2006-12-20 15:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right. That is a very hard decision. No one can tell you how you will feel about it or that its wrong or right. You have to sit down and way out your options. If you decide to go ahead with the abortion, do not let anyone make you feel bad about it. They do not know all the details of your situation and thus can not judge. How far along are you? Adoption is always a possibility as well
2006-12-20 15:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by CHOCOLATE_SCORP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is this your only option???? Have you considered adoption?? this is a very hard and emotional time in your life, and your unborn child's life too. I don't believe in abortion unless medically necessary. Contact a couple adoption agencies in your area, talk to them and don't stick with one agency. Keep your options open. If you think that it will be too hard for you to do adoption, then consider an alternative. But do what is best for you, and best for the baby. Get some spiritual guidance also. But don't be hasty in your decisions.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-20 15:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by dandslove6 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going to get a lot of good little Christians telling you all about abortion and murder and how you should have your baby and give it up for adoption.
Facts are facts.....a heartbeat is not necessarily a full functioning heart. It's just blodd being passed through for circulation. It's called a FETUS becauseit is NOT a baby and cannot live without it's "host' ( the mom)
Do what is right for you. Have the abortion and go on with your life. Just make sure that you learn from your mistake and make better decisions in the future.
good luck and you have to follow YOUR heart - not anyone elses.
2006-12-20 15:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by jachooz 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No-please no abortion-consider adoption-I was almost aborted because my birth mother was very young and the father was not invloved at all.But her mom talked her into adoption and that is the only reason I am here today-I would have been aborted.You can even do open adoptions where you can see the child and be involved.
I don't know how far along you are but even by 5 weeks pregnant the heart is already beating and the baby is forming.
2006-12-20 15:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by mama of 2 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is up to you whether you have an abortion or not.....no one here can tell you whether you should or not, but what I will tell you is that if you are not capable of raising a child STOP HAVING SEX! or start using protection. I will never understand the idiots of the world who have unprotected sex, get pregnant, and then decide that they don't have enough money to take care of the baby. You are a drain on society and a nuisance to humanity. Is it really so hard to keep your damn clothes on?
2006-12-20 15:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No please don't. My best friend is looking to adopt because she and her husband can't have children. This situation breaks peoples heart because those who are ready to have children are usually held back by something. Be responsible for this baby and give it to someone who will love it and take care of it. Contact DHS so they can help you line up a family. If you are sincerely considering this please email me and I will get some more info for you. My cousin just gave a baby to a family who was stricken with an illness leaving the father not able to conceive and that is the greatest gift you can give to someone.
2006-12-20 15:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a friend who had an abortion because she feels that she can't raise the baby and said that it is not the right time and it is too big of responsibility, plus she was still in college at that time.
She still haunts by the memory...
The decision is still yours.GOODLUCK!
2006-12-20 15:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by Maya1102 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only you can answer that question. but just because he doesnt want to help raise his child doesnt mean that that is true. under the law he will have to help you financially. but if you truely feel you can not care for a child then there are options for you and abortion could be the right choice for you. good luck
2006-12-20 15:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by amanda s 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, why carry to full term if you're not going to keep it? adoption of American children has never been the "in" thing to do especially now. every one wants the foreign children, when our own need so much. putting it up for adoption does not guarantee it will have a better life. the decision is ultimately up to you...good luck and don't let people tell you you're going to hell or any thing else it's your life and your body.
2006-12-20 15:49:26 · answer #11 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋