he doesnt want the kid
2006-12-20 07:14:29 · 11 answers · asked by somebodysmamasoon 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why do people have babies when the partner doesn't want it?
I know
ENTRAPMENT
Why do people have unprotected sex
I know
STUPIDITY
2006-12-20 07:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by Bunky 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
there is a lot of assistance for single mothers. If your boyfriend doesn't want the child but wants all the fun of making one that says a lot about his character. Thats probably a good thing he was honest because now you can start thinking of what is best for your child and you. He is not. You can get medicaid or healthy start to pay for the pregnancy and the medical bills for the first couple years. You can get WIC, while you are pregnant and for the first few years. You can get food stamps to help pay for groceries. You can go to school for free. You can get help paying your gas bill and your electric bill. I think you can also get assistance with your rent. Some churches give free car care to single mothers. A waitress or bartending job is a great way to earn cash fast as long as you are smart with your money and cash in hand is cash going in to the bank. Men may have more muscle, but women are by far the stronger sex. When women are faced with problems with find a way to deal with them and make it work somehow. Men tend to avoid the problem or run away from. (I am not talking about all men) If he wants to continue acting like a child let him be someone elses problem. YOU DON'T NEED HIM! When they are willing participants they are awesome and wonderful to have, but when they are not you are better off without them. Don't let him bring you down. Rise up from your struggles and take on the challenges you are faced with. Set some goals on what you want to make in the next 2 years when you've met those goals make some more. The only way to fail is to not try at all.
2006-12-20 15:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by amanda f 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
should have used protection! There are jobs out there that will support you and 1 child. go out and find one. Feeling sorry for yourself isnt going to make any money for you. Get a paternity test and go to court if you have to and get child support from the dad then you make up the rest by working at least part time if you want to just get by or full time if you want a good life.
2006-12-20 15:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He can be taken to court and ordered to pay child support. Your family may have to pitch in to help as well, especially with babysitting while you work and maybe go to school to get a better job.
2006-12-20 15:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by Country girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whether he wants it or not...he is financially responsible for it till its 18
2006-12-20 19:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do it, there are places you can go and get help with bill and milk and food. You will be a great mother. And also, take his *** to court for child support!
2006-12-20 15:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by kristin h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cant say anything better than eveyrone above me, so...Yes, take his lazy do the crime cant do the time ace to court for child support and...you can do it, you can do it for your baby!
YOU GO GIRL!
And Merry Christmas, Kid!
2006-12-20 15:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
then you're going to have to stand up and take care of your baby. there's no handbook on parenting and it will be difficult. just weigh your options and forget about him.
2006-12-20 15:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What is the question?
2006-12-20 15:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well forget him and get W.I.C.
2006-12-20 15:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋