I liked this guy a lot, we were very much in love, but couldnt get married, we promised each other that wouldnt be in touch in future. I married a man chosen by my parents, i've been married for 3 years now, but still cant forget about my lost love, i havent heard from him, neither do i have any contact details of him now. I dont even feel that I love my husband. Am very confused. What should i do?
2006-12-20 07:07:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I THINK THAT HE IS VERY HAPPY WITH HIS WIFE AND NOW YOU ALSO BE HAPPY WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE.
2006-12-24 03:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone, you shouldn't be married with whom you don't love at any cost...Now it's been 3 years..you have been fed up from ur husband and looking for your X love again?? why after 3 yrs??...who already have forgotten you..He might have someone else in his life..or must be married with someone else..if your love is continue..you could take an action ahead but you don't have any contact with him better u try to know ur husband and love him...past is gone..think about future..Be ur self don't try to break 3 more lives...Don't follow INDIAN MOVIES..they are just movies,,not realities
2006-12-20 18:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make an effort to make the marriage work.It is understandable the way u feel.
You guys made a very mature decision & u should stick to it.U haven't told the reason u guys couldn't get married.Does the reason still exsist.
But have u thought that maybe you boyfriend is married too now & may be very happy in his marriage.So if u decide to go searching for him,u are going to breakup his marriage, not only yours
Please make yr marriage work.You have to work to make a marriage work irrespective if it is a arranged or a love marriage.Give yourself time & make an effort.
And always believe that what ever happens happens for good....
2006-12-20 17:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How u knw ur husband dnt love u ? Mayb u felt that bcoz u still have sum feeling for ur ex !!
Maybe ur ex is leading a happy life wiz sum1 else so why not u too ? Try to forget ur ex , accept ur husband , approach him , behave as a lover , get to knw how much he loves ?
if still it dnt work then just leave him coz u r spoiling urs n his life too !!
Best of luck !!!
2006-12-21 06:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give this marriage some time..
why dont you love your husband..
and why do you love that guy --what has he done for you?
if you still dont like your husband..get a divorce..its your life, and if that guy really loves you, he will find you somehow and get together.
2006-12-20 16:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by seclude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is common.When u have love and affection on a guy.
He would have gone out of country for earning. u would
be scared to disclose ur parents. or ur parents will not prefer
since he is other caste. forget that. Love ur husband and make happy and make love on him.
2006-12-24 03:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by jaya s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all divorce your current husband and free the poor guy from the misery of having to hold on to a woman who does not love him.
2006-12-22 16:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Flirtatious Wiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simmi please come out of ur past...only u can help urself...u are married now and i hope ur husband gives u all the love u deserve...it is true and so honest of u to say that that guy is still on ur mind...there is nothing wrong with it but do not let that past affect ur present....u let him go and he went and never came back...God's judgements are never wrong...he may not hv been right for u...give the love in ur heart to ur husband now and find happiness ...u will surely succeed in overcoming ur past.........
2006-12-24 01:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by suni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Try to locate your ex flame and see if Your still compatible. I am only saying this because it sounds as though your marriage was pre-arranged.
2006-12-20 16:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop chasing the mirage and hold on to your husband and love him
2006-12-21 07:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have to forget ur love and live happy with ur husband
2006-12-20 17:31:44 · answer #11 · answered by Neeto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋