he,s intrested once every few months..he smokes a lot and when he is not watching computer he is watching sky tv..war programes..i am only 27..he is 47 and wants a lot less sex than me..i sometimes feel frusutrated.
2006-12-20 06:51:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a shame, his loss honey. You go out and have fun with your mates, and buy a 'rabbit'!
2006-12-20 06:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by chutney 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well try talking 2 him but he is 47 and set in his ways. he is comfortable with what he is going n is not gonna easily change. sex isnt everything hun get some hobbies, volunteer ur time, take matters into ur own hands.
it sucks but some people r just less interested in sex than others. ur choices r not that many learn how 2 deal with it or leave him because I will be u anything that he is not gonna change. he may make an effort for a week or two once u bring it to his attention but he will fall back into the old habits quickly.....
good luck
2006-12-20 07:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't talk to your mom about it. You should be talking to your man about it. You are in a committed relationship with him not your mother. You really need to make him listen to you about the way you feel. But on the other hand its not your fault. I don't think that you are being a brat. I think that you are lonely and missing the affection of your husband. And there is nothing wrong with that. But just let him know how you feel, then give him time to work out a better work schedule for himself. In the meantime you need to be patient, understanding (Because if he don't you don't work you don't eat.) And find you something to do during the day to advance yourself may be take a class, volunteer, shopping or anything else to keep busy. But please be strong and don't cheat because all of the complains that you have are the reasons why people cheat. Take care.
2016-05-23 01:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am net seeing enough info to answer this one. What else has changed since you were first together. Drive is not totally an age issue but a personal one. I am older than he and still have all the drive I had earlier in life. He may have a physical problem that make hem not want to go there. If he will not talk aobut it with a profesional then you talk to one. Do not let his issues drag down your self esteem. Good luck
2006-12-20 07:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by Larry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry! Try mixing things a little. (If having a honest convo hasn't helped) My hubby was hooked on, what else, yahoo answers & questions. I just went in a started throwing my clothes at him, one at a time, and that got his attention, but.... if he wanted more to come off, he had to start adding to the pile himself! By the time we were 'buck naked' the screen was back to black and we were laughing so hard and having a great time, we spent a great evening together. So now he or I will throw something on the desk and off we go.
2006-12-20 07:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by JazzyLynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to expect that a guy that much older than you is not going to have the same sex drive as someone your age. Didn't you think about that when you got married? Still, I think your husband has a problem and is taking you for granted. Tell him how you feel and see what he says.
2006-12-20 06:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sugar pie your 20 yr age differance is going to be a big factor in your sex drive. Should have thought about that prior to marriage. Sex drives change as people age and in a few yr when he's wanting to ride you all night you may not be wanting it. You can not "MAKE" someone want to have sex if they have no sexual urges to do so.
2006-12-20 06:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is spending all his time living in a fantasy land then he is probably depressed, sounds like he needs to get a life outside of the home, does he work and meet other people, sounds like he needs to be stimulated in more ways than one.
2006-12-20 07:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by georgeygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying that goes,the best way to a Men's hearth is good food and always try to look sexy because men's fantasy are in their eye then goes to the Brian
2006-12-20 07:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by james o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Janine you literaly grab the bull by the horn .Put a nude photo on his screen .I would not recommend cheating to much trouble you not need that .Next time you want to make love appear beside him at p c half dressed or topless then drag him away .Dont give up on him I spend lot of time on my pc wish you luck (keep us updated) cheers Alan. ps nice legs !!!!!!
2006-12-20 07:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by not a mused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you go older...what you get is what you get... The sexual drive is much less at his age especially once the honeymoon is over. It's just not as important to him as it is to you. Sorry to say that.... so you'll have to rekindle the relationship...try seduction and enticement
2006-12-20 07:07:36 · answer #11 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋