It's black and about 2 to 2 1/2 feet long. She says I'm bossy and overly critical. She told me I can be the boss at work but at home, she's the boss and I report to her. I've never in my life laid a hand on a female. She backed me into a corner in our bedroom last night waving that paddle and told me if I got pissy with her tonight, she'd take me upstairs and wear my butt out. Kinda freaked me out because she was serious and not joking. Anyhow, I made sure I didn't smart off or anything. I think I just lost the boss job at home. What should I do, if anything?
2006-12-20 06:48:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds to me like she is wanting to get a little kinky. It's not going to hurt you to try something new.
2006-12-20 07:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Candy B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife, in no uncertain terms, that you are not a child and that she needs to get rid of the paddle, now. Also tell her that you do not intend to "report to her" ever. furthermore, let her know that you don't like her behavior and that she had better straighten up pretty damn quick. When you tell her these things, look her straight in the eyes and mean it. If she continues the behavior, file for divorce.
This woman is bullying you because she's afraid of losing you. She's also jealous because you've been successful at work. Typical behavior for this kind of woman is to keep you on guilt trips by being critical of your every move. You have a serious problem on your hands and you must put a stop to it.
Always maintain your position as a man, and never allow your woman to back you into a corner, neither physically nor emotionally. Stand your ground with her, based upon who you are as a man. If your wife cannot respect you as a man, find the strength and the courage to let her go. Otherwise, you will live the rest of your life in misery.
One more thing: Don't allow her to provoke you to anger. Women like this will try to get their men to hit them, when all else fails. If it gets that bad, it's better to get your hat and coat and leave.
2006-12-20 15:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she needs a good licking if you know what I mean? That could get you the bosses job back at home! She sounds a little over the top to me but if that doesn't work then I'd spank her little a_s!
2006-12-20 14:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good, your surrounded, now you can attack in any direction you choose, and show her who the real boss is!
Enjoy and have a Merry Christmas!
2006-12-20 14:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy!
2006-12-20 14:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got two choices - either accept your new position with her or get out.
2006-12-20 14:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Firestorm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
put up spy cams and when she hits you you will have it for evidence that she is abusive when you go through a divorce
2006-12-20 14:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You know what you should do? You should return your balls to someone who can use them because its obvious that you don't need them anymore!
LOL
2006-12-20 14:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by heyyou0717 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sounds exciting. just go with it :P
2006-12-20 15:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by izaboe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't walk, Run!
2006-12-20 14:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋