Is it possible to be too tired to have sex?? My fiance recently (in the past month) got a new job with alot of physical labor. He leaves at 6am and comes home at 5pm. Lately we only have sex once a week if that...He still comes home every night and we are together all weekend. Should I be worried he is getting sick of me, or just really tired. Please tell me what you think. Also I should add that we've been together for 1 year
2006-12-20 06:38:48 · 16 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes these things really do happen. Stress can cause a man or womans sex drive to just go away. Physically tired can do it as well. I would just talk with your partner. Let them know how you feel. Maybe even try to set the mood with a surprise dinner with candles and romantic stuff.
2006-12-20 06:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you ever see your family around party's and all? ever wounder how thier sex life is going? I have a family of 15, 10 tio's and 5 tia's. They have husbands and wives. I can tell you this right now, most are working the same amount of hours as he is. sex, it's something that they'll be willing to give out of the fact that they love eachother. But it's only if they feel like they can live up to the energy. Work is tireing, with all the labor he's doing I asure you that it's gonna be alot of good exersing for him, meaning more muscels working. Sex is the best work out. It's perfect for adrilian rushes, it's a thing that could be healthy for us. But it could take alot outa ya. That's why there are people just worn out the next day after sex. It's something that takes the energy outa yeah. He's not getting tired of you, he's getting exsosted from the job, and he's trying to keep his energy level just right so that when he go's to work he'll end up with energy to last. I know it can be kinda hard to take, it's kinda anxiotious of time and all. But life is what you guy's are working for. A house, money to buy food, yadda yada yada. You know. blah blah blah. Do you have a job? you know something that keeps you busy as well, to keep you off the mind of sex alot? and just think. The more you wait on sex the more it'll come out with a more juicy sex.
2006-12-20 14:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible. i am a female and i have 2 jobs and i am too tired sometimes to have sex with my bf and he gets mad and asks the same thing but i tell him why and i love him. i mean at least u 2 still get to spend time together. i mean does he enjoy ya company. thats what matters. it is not all about sex ya know. as long as u 2 are happy with yourselves
2006-12-20 15:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by khester05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be tired, you will know for sure when he takes vacation or has a long weekend. If the sex doesn't pick up then, I would start to wonder.
2006-12-20 14:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible to just be tired. His body is adjusting to his new job, and he probably just tired. If he was getting tired of you, he wouldn't be spending his time with you. Give him a chance to adjust and see if things go back to normal before you get over excited.
2006-12-20 14:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old he is and how tired he is. It sounds like a really long day, especially if he's not too young.
How about in the morning on week-ends?
2006-12-20 14:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he could be to tired because of work it is possible. But if you are really worried about it go and talk to him about it. Then go from there. You will feel better when you talk to him . Good luck!
2006-12-20 14:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by helpmom26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a new job, allow a little time for his body to adjust. Relax, everything will be fine. He's not getting sick of you.
2006-12-20 14:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible to be too tired. The stress is not helping either
2006-12-20 14:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's tired and stressed.. see if he will talk to ya about it.. but don't force him..
also, thank of some ways to reduce his stress.. maybe a back rub, foot rub.. cinnamon candles are great stress reliever and libido enhancer for guys.. get creative, but don't pressure him (that will just add more stress)
2006-12-20 14:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by frogonalog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋