My mother is 54 years old however she doesn't know hw to dress properly or how to use makeup. Any tips?

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My mother is about 54 years old and about 5'3. She has wheatish complex (East Indian origin) and is of medium build. I was wondering if anyone could provide me with some tips that I can give my mother on how to dress well for her new career as nursing director for a large hospital. Are there are any online sites where I can see hairstyles and clothing styles for women by age? How about tips on how to apply subtle makeup (for a beginner).

My mother refuses to change her ways but I'm convinced that, if she gives herself the chance, she can look more presentable and beautiful than she already is. Being a guy, I'm completely at a loss when it comes to understanding women's fashion and makeup so I would appreciate any tips and advice. Thanks!

I'm very proud of my mother. She has accomplished a lot on her own and is very liked and respected. However she is very stubborn when it comes to fashion of any kind - hair, clothing, makeup.

For instance, she absolutely refuses to wear lipstick. I on the other hand don't know what other alternatives are out there as a substitute. Also, she still has the pony tail hairstyle that she has had for over 40 years. I just want her to look at some alternatives as i know she can look so much more presentable with just a little effort (and a good haircut!)

Wow! That was really quick!

Thank you all for the great answers! I already have some great ideas about where to head from here. I'm thinking of taking my mom to Dillard's (or one of the big dept. stores) like GetRDone mentioned so she can get some basic lessons on simple and subtle makeup.

Also, kvcar2 mentioned two brands of clothing and I've noted those down. Are there any other specific brands of clothes that are appropriate for this age group (54 years)?

Thank you so much everyone for your tips and advice. I'm going to make a list out of all your suggestions and give it to my mother. :)

Answer 1

Sign her up for What Not to Wear!

Answer 2

Well being a professional woman she could never go wrong with a pants suite in navy blue Grey black brown tan or even cream if applicable she may even be able to get away with a skirt suite with knee length skirts,as far as hair many different styles are acceptable this year like a neatly placed bun with a bang or a stylish side ponytail even free flowing locks as long as it is neat she could do very tight spirals and that should last the whole day as far as make up goes you never want to over do it she would want to accent or highlight her natural beauty with neutral colors over the eye ,eye liner(liquid is the best)mascara XXL by mabeline is the best a tinted lip-glass by M.A.C cosmetics and maybe a little rouge on the cheek bones very lightly dusted and M.A.C finishing spray will have her set for the day looking very radiant yet fresh and natural the key to any and all makeup is to enhance not overwhelm good luck this should be an easy adjustment for her.....Congrats on her new career and look!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Most women love spa treatments so you might want to consider booking her a spa package, where they do her hair, facial and make-up and perhaps nails. Moms often won't accept feedback from their children or family that they will eagerly embrace coming from a stylist. I think Aveda concept salons are the best. With hair age is often less the issue than the person simply trying an updated style that suits her face and quality of hair. When her hair and makeup are more presentable she might take more of an interest in clothing. Coldwater Creek and J.Jill are excellent boutiques and offer style and quality for 40+ shoppers.

Answer 4

Be certain that your nieces would not wish to put on Grandma's marriage ceremony get dressed via asking them. One maybe comfortable in her moms robe, however I doubt each could wish to put on the equal get dressed for his or her weddings.It could be a disgrace should you simply assumed they would not wish it and chopped it into whatever else. If your nieces are nonetheless a lot to younger to also have an notion approximately their weddings, ask your siblings if they would such as you to keep onto the get dressed for one in every of their daughters. If it's not desired in complete sort, why no longer seem into having ingredients of it made into small lap quilts for household contributors? You might seek by way of the attic and uncover different apparel with sentimental significance so as to add to it as good. (Maybe a few of Dad's historical ties, you and your siblings youngster blankets, ect)

Answer 5

take her to a local department store (like Dillard's) most of the bigger ones have "personal" shoppers and can help her with clothing and shoes. then take her down to the makeup (not the most expensive stuff...but reasonable priced so she will be more likely to continue purchasing it) and have the makeup girl give her a new look (but with her age, i would suggest a natural look with a hint of color..nothing bold). then take her to the salon and get her a manicure, pedicure, and haircut....etc

basically treat her to a day of special treatment and at the same time helping her

Answer 6

Well, the clue comes in your statement, "My mother refuses to change her ways." She doesn't want to be different. You can take her out and buy her a $1,000 worth of makeup. You can take her to a place and give her a makeover. You can buy her books. You can put her in classes. No matter what you think of her, you aren't going to change her. Just be proud of her for who she is on the inside.

Answer 7

if that was my mom i would buy her something to wear and then i would ask to do her makeup and go out somewheres with her compliment her bunches