So I have a 2 year old, and I also have a 3 1/2 month old. Lifes good things are ok. Would it be wrong to already be pregnant again? Don't get the wrong idea its by the same guy, and I'm not even sure if I am. But would it be bad? Would it be so wrong if in a way I wanted to be?
2006-12-20 05:50:40 · 15 answers · asked by Jewels 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you and your partner love and support the children, there's nothing wrong with having as many as you want, but you're asking for a reason. It could be 'bad' to have another child so soon after your last if it's for the wrong reasons.
For example: If you want another baby because you like the attention you get while pregnant, or for the affection you hope they'll give you, or because you think it will help/save/improve your relationship, those would be bad reasons to have another child.
Perhaps, if you're concerned, you should examine your motives?
2006-12-20 06:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's actually a common feeling- after being pregnant for so long, you feel like your physically missing something after you give birth. There are stress and depression disorders associated with giving birth. Check this out, or do some research on your own.
http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?type=news&id=93996&cn=176
If you want to be pregnant, go for it! Just make sure you want to be pregnant agian for the sake of having a third child, not because you miss the feeling of being pregnant. Can you afford three college tuitions? can you deal with having another screaming baby around? Talk to your doctor or a psychologist about it before you do.
2006-12-20 14:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by paintmeblue719 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal and that's why the doctors enforce family planning immediately before you leave the hospital. Sometimes it's also maybe a poor eating habit that makes you feel like you're having the pregnancy symptons. I sugest go for a check with the gynae and if you're not pregnant go for family planning. Being pregnant again is going to be a rocky ride while you're still looking after this little one.
2006-12-20 13:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Spicemom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to completely minimize your risk for complications, your best bet is to wait 3 years between pregnancies. That's about how long it takes your body to really fully prepare itself for a new pregnancy. Most people do just fine waiting a shorter amount of time, but there is an increased risk of complications such as preeclampsia and low birtweight.
2006-12-20 14:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be wrong, but you will need to see a doctor to make sure that your vitamin store has been replenished. As long as your last pregnancy was normal, you should be fine. If you had a hard time, or are prone to heavy bleeding, you may want to talk to your doctor to make sure everything is ok.
2006-12-20 13:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have babys right now, i understand that u like kids, but now theyre babys, in 2 years theyll be 5.1/2 and 4 years old so u wont be able to take care all that kids at same.
2006-12-20 13:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by brit_avyltth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's precious! I don't think that it is wrong at all, however, a dr. would probably disagree. I once read that it takes at least a year for your body for fully recover from having a baby. Just follow your instincts.
2006-12-20 14:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by jlowe06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your partner want to have another baby then go ahead. You shouldn't feel its wrong to want to have babies so close together. If you guys are happy and can care for another child then be happy and have more babies
2006-12-20 13:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never wrong to be pregnant again or to want to be.
2006-12-20 13:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not wrong at all, if thats really what you and your man want and can handle then go right ahead.
2006-12-20 13:59:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋