i was wondering if my ex got back with me if our relationship would be stronger than before
2006-12-20 05:19:22 · 18 answers · asked by forevertillforever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes,if you guys missed each other while you were apart and know that you had something that you don't ever want to lose again,it could work!
2006-12-20 05:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes it can. It really depends on the nature of the break up and how long the relationship was apart for the first time. If it was over something trivial then I say maybe it can get stronger. If it was over something more serious, like cheating, then I would say no. The relationship did break up for a reason and that should be considered because relationships should be able to work through anything or it is just not the right person to begin with. Good luck.
2006-12-20 05:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by LISA F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible, my current relationship did. However, it totally depends on a multitude of factors. Some of these are the maturity level, experience, and integrity of both partners, the willingness to communicate openly and honestly, the mutual desire to commit, what broke you up in the first place and if those issues have been resolved, etc.
It is not an automatic thing. It takes mutual desire and effort on both parts. Most people who get back together just repeat the same patterns that occurred in the original failed relationship. You can't solve a problem at the same level on which it was created, which means you have to grow up from the previous situation to be able to look back and correct what went wrong. Best of luck!
2006-12-20 05:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Indeed, a breakup does allow one to think more clearly and gives an opportunity to reflect. During that time you might realize how good that person was and what you miss about her/him. If you date other people in the meantime you might also realize that your partner was at least as good as anyone else.
That is why many couples when they get together find that they bond like never before.
Having said that it is important to analyze why you broke up in the first place. If there is something that makes you fundamentally incompatible, the taking your ex back is a bad idea. However, if you broke up due to a misunderstanding then it is OK to give it another try.
2006-12-20 05:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on why you got back together, if you both want it to be stronger. If you are both ready to put the "work" into making it stronger. Why you broke up in the first place. There is no guarantee with any relationship.
2006-12-20 05:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes--but it depends on what broke you up and how the person treated you when you broke up. You might forgive certain things but you don't forget them and even though you might not want to admit it at the time, some things make you love the person a little less than you did the first time around. From your additional details, it sounds like you two could be stronger the second time around. Good luck!
2016-03-13 08:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if both people have searched there hearts and can take their part of the blame and build on their relationship and love for each other that it will work out. I would give anything to have achance to work things out. So if you are in this situation take a chance. Be happy...and think not every couple is willing to put the time and effort into rebuilding. That takes guts.
2006-12-20 12:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in two relationships where we broke up and got back together. it did make the relationship stronger, but we ended up breaking up even quicker than the first time. after all, if you broke up the first time, you broke up for a reason. most people dont change for the ones they break up with.
2006-12-20 05:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel that relationships can get stronger that second time around, cause you both learned the mistake you made in the last relationship, that made you guys break up!
2006-12-20 05:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Sweet Pea*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the reason for the split. can be stronger if changes are made, and both parties realize where it went wrong, and no one is placing the entire blame on the other. if both mates remain open to change for the better of the relationship, and remain humble theres a good chance the marriage will emerge stronger.
2006-12-20 12:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-23 03:28:13 · answer #11 · answered by kimberly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋