How Come Im Not Pregnant?

Question

For The Past 3 Months Me And My Husband Have Been Trying To Get Pregnant Every Day. And Im Still Not Pregnant.Could There Be Something Wrong With One OF Us?

Answer 1

It is way to soon to suspect that something could be wrong. It takes an average of 6 to 12 months for a couple to conceive. Those who do it right away are the exception...not the norm! Please be patient...try not stress out about it or you will actually prevent pregnancy from occurring. If you get to the point where you have tried for one year without success, then it would be time to seek an appointment with your gynecologist for a fertility workup.

Try not to have sex daily...it decreases the sperm count, increases the chances of immature sperm and you will eventually get tired of sex as it becomes "programmed" instead of spontaneous. Concentrate having sex around your fertile times. If you aren't sure when those times are, this site will help you figure out your ovulation times:
http://pregnancy.about.com/cs/gettingpregnant/l/blcalovulate.htm

Answer 2

Before a doctor will even discuss fertility issues with you, you must have been trying unsucsessfully to get pregnant for a year.

That does NOT mean having unprotected sex every day. (This can actually deplete his sperm count so that it's not high enough when you're actually fertile.)

It means using one of the many methods (basal body, cervical mucus, calendar-counting, saliva microscope, or some combo of the above) of fertility tracking, and having sex on those days (and no more frequently than every-other day during your non-fertile times).

So no, it's doubtful anything's wrong with either of you, as you haven't even been at this for a year, and have (apparently) made no effort to actually take adavantage of the times when you're fertile.

For help with fertility tracking, try http://www.ovulation-calculator.com/fertility-charting.htm

Also, if you decide to try ovulation test-kits to help you pin-point the days, go to the Dollar Store, not the drug store. At the drugstore, the kits cost about $13/each (and you need a new one each time). At the dollar store (and they ALL carry them), they cost $1.00 each.