she's obsessed with three different guys (that are real) and one that's not. but here to talk about him! okay. we'll call one guy Hubby, the other Panda Bear, and the last Deer. okay. so she like Hubby the first time that she saw him but he didn't like her. she's liked Panda Bear for a while and he asked if she still liked him. then there's Deer. he's been her friend for a while, and she kinda likes him but she doesn't want to tell him.
1: should she keep obsessing over Hubby? (it's causing not to eat because she wants to be as skinny as he is)
2:should she tell Panda Bear that she likes him still?
3: should she admit to Deer that she's been pining over him for like EVUR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
4: can i smack some sense into her? PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
help plz. i think she might go over the deep end one day and starve herself to death! HELP!
2006-12-20 04:09:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would go with panda. Its a common interest and less likely for anyone to get hurt. but thats just my opinion.
2006-12-20 04:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Bman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend needs to just date and not get serious with anyone for now because it will be wrong if she goes out with any of these fellows while she is thinking about the other two all the time.
It would be a horrible mistake for her to go out with someone that doesn't have any interest in her. Later, when she is ready it is the safest bet to date and have a steady relationship with a friend. Someone that knows and loves her for who she is and even loves her knowing all of her faults and mistakes. Someone that she comfortable with and wont hurt her in the end.
Everyone has secrete crushes on people or celebrities but in the end it is a friend that sticks by you but if she isn't ready to focus on one person all of her relationships will fail.
2006-12-20 04:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by bethany g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of Hubby. sounds like a disaster and detrimental to her health.
she can't admit to either Panda or Deer until she figures out which one she wants to be with. Then the rest is easy.
sounds like she needs therapy anyway. she doesn't know what she wants.
2006-12-20 04:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by mafarrar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really smack her over the head and tell her to get a grip on herself.... if she gets mad let her, you are only trying to help. But she should go with the friend, hes a safe bet.
2006-12-20 04:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by TOO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell he that a guy is as inportant as her life starving her self is very bad i now i tryed i was addicted to losing lbs but i couldnt eat cuz all the food looked gross to me it was like eating **** or do ant thing i was to small soner if she throwsup alot she will throw up blood and die tell her
2006-12-20 04:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by mariely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smack her in the face a couple of times and tell her to grow up. if she were my daughter i'd lock her in the basement.
2006-12-20 04:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
for all 4 I think
2006-12-20 04:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to chose who she likes the most...and she cant chose someone that doesnt like her back its that simple..it has to go both ways...and if it dont its not meant to be..or at least not meant to happen yet.
2006-12-20 04:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Mami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋