MY HUSBAND IS GOING TO MEXICO IN NOVEMBER AND WANTS ME TO GO BUT I GRADUATE IN JANUARY AND HE SAID I CAN GO AND COME BACK IN MARCH AND THEN GRADAUTE BUT I WANNA GET SCOO OVER WITH. SHOULD I GO OR JUST WAIT FOR HIM TO COME BACK IN MARCH.
2006-12-20 04:06:18 · 17 answers · asked by lil momma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
graduate, you don't want to mess things up, I'm almost there too. I"m done in Jan. You can always visit later, you have the rest of your life to travel, if education is already started, you should finish, its hard to get back into it once you leave
2006-12-20 04:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost DIVORCE sux! I dont know your state laws but i would think that u can withhold the child until an order is put in place. Also, if u can get full custody, more than likely he will get ur son every other weekend. Make sure u have everything documented on ur situation.....EVERYTHiNG! If he has made threats against ur life or well being change the locks and get a restraining order! on the house worse case scenario is one u cant afford it or yall have to sell it and split the money down the middle! With you having the baby u will probably get to stay in it! take care!!
2016-05-23 00:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uuhhh....GRADUATE. Don't be stupid and put off what is important for a man!!! So many women quit their education or good jobs for their husbands and then NEVER find the "right time" to complete them. If he loves you and is a good man, he would wait. He should be sooo proud of you and not even think about moving. He sounds so selfish. Your needs are important...school is important. Let's just say you get a divorce (just because statistically that is possible) what are you going to do to support yourself? You are going to kick yourself in the *** and WISH you finished school. DO NOT PUT IT OFF!!!
2006-12-20 04:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by GK2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
graduate. never put your education on hold for a man. he can wait until you're done, it's like what, a month? he'll get over it. he'll still be there when you graduate, but you never know if something might happen when you're in mexico to make you not able to graduate. (i.e. a death in the family that makes you put your education on the back burner or something like that.) graduate as soon as possible, then it's over and done with.
2006-12-20 04:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Met up with him after you graduate. Then come back with him in March. It'll be like a school vaction..
2006-12-20 04:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay and graduate. He is just thinking of himself. This is something that you have worked hard towards and you need to finish it. If he really cared about you and your goals, he would support you wanting to finish. Good luck!
2006-12-20 04:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by mydds07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Graduate and join him later.
2006-12-20 04:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay and graduate then join him at that time>
2006-12-20 04:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a bit selfish of him to ask you to abandon your life and go with him..afterall, he decided to go so far away. i would certainly graduate first - abandoning school would be something i would regret for the rest of my life. after all, january is not so far away! good luck!
2006-12-20 04:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by Vassia* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl u need to do what u need to do. and if u do go when u get there he may not even what to come back! then what yall gon do? GRADAUTE!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-20 04:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋