I made a mistake and cheated on my bf on Nov. 19th (early morning around 4 ro 5am)....i had sex with my bf late night Nov. 15th (around 12 or 1am), I am now pregnant.
I have told both men, and my bf decided to stay with me and support me....maybe in hopes this baby is his, but he says he will be here no matter what because i did tell him. I am pretty sure it's my bf, but considering i got off the pill in late July and haven't had a regular cycled period since, i don't know when i ovulate.
Ultrasound told me normal textbook due date and how far along i am which would make it my bf.
What's your opinion? Who do you think it is?
2006-12-20 03:22:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Last period was Nov. 2nd
2006-12-20 03:22:40 · update #1
Could really be either.
2006-12-20 03:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let me just say that your boyfriend is one hell of a guy! Staying with you after you cheated on him.....
Don't know what to tell you, though, about who's baby it is.... The distance between the dates is very very small, thus making it harder to tell.... Don't think there's anything you can do.. Just wait, and take a paternity test after the baby is borne, if you still want to find out. What about the other guy? he didn't tell you anything, is he not expecting anything? Or is he saying he's not the father and period?
Hope it will be OK. you are one lucky girl, with a boyfriend like that!
2006-12-20 03:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Audrey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be the bf but a difference of only 4 days makes it difficult to tell. You are very lucky that he decided to stay with you after all of that so I'd keep my pants on from now on. The only way to really tell will be after the baby's born.
2006-12-20 03:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the dates of sex with both men are so close there is no way of telling except by dna which one is daddy. ultrasounds aren't that accurate in dating.
my opinion is get a dna test after the kids born so that the real daddy has a chance to be the daddy. and if its the other man and he doesn't want to and your boyfriend does then go to court and have the ones rights terminated
2006-12-20 03:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a difference of only 4 days between men, you'll be getting a DNA test if you want to be certain when the baby's born.
2006-12-20 03:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by desiderio 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The dates are way too close together to know 100%. The only way to know for certian is to get a DNA test when the baby is born. Another option is an amniocentesis but that can be harmful to the baby. (Info on amniocentesis: http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/327.html)
Good luck to you and your boyfriend.
2006-12-20 03:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either one. the dates are way too close to be able to rule the one nighter out. You should really do a paternity test when the baby is born.
2006-12-20 03:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by estkijedsco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only way to know is a paternity test after the baby is born and stop sleeping around
2006-12-20 03:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only fool proof way to find out whose it is, is to have a paternity test after the baby is born. and please for the well being of your child, make sure you get it done.
2006-12-20 03:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your ob told you that by ultrasound it was your boyfriend then i'd say him. but once the baby gets here to avoid any confusion later on in life please get the baby dna tested.
2006-12-20 03:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋