if one party is bored, dou think this may help to get new intrest on her or his partner?
2006-12-20 03:08:44 · 22 answers · asked by LOVERBOY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I seriously doubt it.
2006-12-20 03:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might teach you the value of your relationship, but you might lose the relationship in the process. It sounds like you need to talk or act different toward each other. Often after you've been with someone for a while, you stop trying to seduce their mind and start thinking of physical acts or role playing to get the spice back. I think you just have to find a way to touch each other's hearts and try to forget some of the day-to-day problems that could be getting in the way.
2006-12-20 03:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!! All cheating does is lead to guilt and hurt and if your parter finds out, she will never trust you again. She will hold it over your head forever and the relationship will be done. Don't do it. If you are bored, try doing something new for yourself. A partner is there to support and love you, not for entertainment. Only you can make yourself happy.
2006-12-20 03:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by mna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Trying to justify cheating doesn't make it ok. If you're bored, break up first, then do what you want to. She may be bored with you, too, so how would you feel if your girl decided to have sex with someone else to renew her interest in you? It works both ways, buddy.
2006-12-20 03:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is the worst thng you can do. Plus what if you caught something and gave it to your partner. She would never forgive you. If you are bored in the bed then go to the toy store.
2006-12-20 03:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by angie a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, 100%, no. If you're not satisfied with her, why don't you just leave her? If it's because you love her, then being unfaithful only makes the issue worse. Personally, if my husband cheated on me, I'd have absolutely no interest in sleeping with him ever again. If you have an issue, it's your job to talk to her to fix it. Looking somewhere else will only complicate things.
2006-12-20 04:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will just make you want to stray farther. If you are bored with your partner, try talking about it. Try some new positions, new foreplay, role playing. If none of that works, end it before you stray.
2006-12-20 03:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by been there 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A one night stand never helps with a relationship, its called cheating and would probably end the relationship.
2006-12-20 03:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Flagstones925 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will being dishonest, unloyal, disrespectful, insensitive, and dishonorable to your wife make your relationship with her better?
The only thing cheating manages is to destroy the relationship's foundation of trust and respect. Without that foundation, the relationship will colapse and you will be stuck with nothing but your own guilt and shame.
2006-12-20 03:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never. I have had acquaintances that have tried "open marriage" when things get boring then act like they are shocked and devastated when their partner leaves them for someone else...DUH...you gave them permission to do so because you want to boink other people so don't expect other people to feel sorry for you bacause they found someone else and you haven't.
2006-12-20 03:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i personally just think your trying to find an easy escape plan. cheating will only end the relationship and if you really wanted who your with then u wouldent cheat on them. so move on clearly your not satisfyed but why lower your self by cheating..
2006-12-20 03:42:16 · answer #11 · answered by Baby D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋