how can i know she is virgin or not at 1st time?
2006-12-20 02:31:53 · 33 answers · asked by pankaj 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ask her.
2006-12-20 02:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The only real way is to ask the young lady. Of course she might lie but if she does and you find out then I don't think that she is worth your time. You can't always go by the whole "cherry popping bleed a lot" story because some females may not bleed the first time they have sex. The female can bleed at anytime they are having sex. It could be the 1st, 2nd, 6thetc... It all depends on the body of the female. You could take her to a doctor to find out cause that would be the only accurate way to know the truth. but I am pretty sure that you don't want to go through all that. So all you can do is just take her word for it. But remeber be safe and wear protection.
2006-12-21 11:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by MonsieB. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear of cherry popping? It's when a female has sex for the first time. There's usually an excessive amount of blood. But you can't always tell this way because some women bleed a little every time they "conceive."
The one and only fool-proof way to tell is to ask the girl, which you definitely should do if your in a serious relationship. But be sure that you ask in a respectful manner so she doesn't get the wrong idea..
2006-12-20 09:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by just someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, the 1st time i had sex, i didn't bleed...so there is no way to find out whether she is still virgin or not. I think you should be really serious with this relationship before you have sex with her...If you really serious, i think you have to look inside her personality not her virginity.After all if she's not virgin anymore, will you dump her ? Good Luck
2006-12-21 17:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Star Aphrodite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never tell if a girl is a virgin or not. Even if she tells you that she is not, then she could be one. You never know, girls tell guys a lot of things these days.
2006-12-20 04:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't care about this , there are other things more important about her for sure then her virginity. And you will know better when u will be older with more experience if she was or not.
2006-12-20 03:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by AlinaU 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I know the first time hurt like hell.But I never bleed.But I don't know.I know alot of girls that aren't virgins but they tell alot of guys that they are.best of luck
2006-12-20 03:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by ♥AsH♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just put your finger inside her and if you feel a barrier that means she's still a virgin. If you don't feel a barrier then she's lying to you and isn't a virgin.
2006-12-20 06:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. You'd have to take her word for it. Lots of virgins don't have an intact hymen anymore sometimes due to tampon use, certain sports like horseback riding, gymnastics etc and rough play.
2006-12-20 02:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by chicchick 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
just ask her....be like im curious r u a virgin or not and then she will tell u and probably wont get mad
2006-12-20 07:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her but don't push her, girls don't like to b pushed in2 answering questions they don't really want to answer.
2006-12-20 05:38:09 · answer #11 · answered by kt baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋