2006-12-20 02:14:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You cant.Is just a big lottery.You can tell only if you stay together all life.
2006-12-20 02:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
This sounds like such a HUGE cliche, but it is so true, when a guy loves you, you will just know.
The sex will feel more special, the intimacy will feel fantasic, you WILL just know, you always do.
I know some men think they are clever and can trick women, but women always know.
I call it the za za zu - that special feeling :-)
2006-12-20 10:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be the first to tell you men are pigs. They will lie to get whatever they want. You really cant tell and that's the problem. Be careful, walk softly and care a big stick. It's guys like that,that give the rest of us a bad rap.
2006-12-20 10:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by bad boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without any more details of why you would think this it is pretty hard to answer that one. Although the fact you have asked means you must think he is therefore you have your answer already.
Go with what you think. If you even suspect you are being used then get the heck out of there.
2006-12-20 10:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah the age old question...
The answer is that you cant unless you invest alot of time and money. Trust again is the issue but not blind trust. Trust with an open mind. Just talk with him and if you feel like he is lying or shady then drop him like a sack of potatoes.
Dr prescribes a trip to Brazil to get your "Groove" back
2006-12-20 10:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Prof. Timpo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You wouldn't be asking this question, if you really and truly did not know the answer to it.....You want someone else to reconfirm or rather should I say persuade you that this guy is not a jerk...and is not using you.....
2006-12-20 10:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by txflowerblossom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
does he:
accept you for who you are?
laugh with you and sympathize with you?
compromise on differences of opinon?
not try to change anything about you?
do things you want to do as a couple?
agree with any major issues between the 2 of you?
act like he's willing to be the provider?
try to become involved in things that are important to you?
try to become better acquainted with your friends and family?
talk with you about the relationship issues that come up?
respect your decisions?
treat you like you have common sense and intelligence?
Is he willing to take you out with his friends?
Is he willing to acknowledge publicly that you are "his girl"?
Does he seriously respect you and not secretly stay angry when
you say "no" to intamacy?
Is he willing for the 2 of you to spend time with his family and yours?
if you can answer "yes" to the majority of the above questions,
then you can be pretty sure he's truly in love with you.
2006-12-20 10:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew because i have a similar situation and man its really hard to tell when he is just sooo sexxy!!
2006-12-20 10:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ratt_a_tatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is truly in love with you he will tell you he does. he sill tell you and he'll also show you he loves you with small things like love notes, how he holds you, if he cares about your day...its all about the small things and if he loves you, the small things will add up...
2006-12-20 10:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by We never change do we??? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really tell. The best thing to do is to come forth and ask him directly. If he gives you the run around this could be an inclination.
2006-12-20 10:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he comes around more than when he needs money he probably loves you if he only comes around when he needs money he is probably using you and you could ask him and if he gets mad a throws a tantrum then he is most likely using you
2006-12-20 11:14:51 · answer #11 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋