How do Lesbian couples deal with each other?

Question

Men have a hard time dealing with a Chick during PMS, PMDD and her Period, so how do Lesbian couples do it. Is it a month long Battle between each other because one is suffering PMS while the other is high on PMDD.

Answer 1

You have to be extra careful to each other's feelings and build up a strong enough relationship that can withstand misunderstandings and sensitivity at that time of the month. But a) not all women get PMT and b) as for the synching it's rubbish for me and my partner as we always have our period at opposite times of the month (yes we live together for 7 years and never happened at the same time).

Answer 2

Amiko-Garbriel was right, sexual desires do wax and wain, it's normal. In my ten years with my partner we've gone through a couple of times where sexual intimacy was strained at best. But relationship wise we have always been able to talk about the "why." Even if it's painful or hard to talk about, we knew we could trust each other to not judge or blame. I'm not saying we've never had any big blow-out arguments, because I'd be lieing if I said that. But communication is key. I can't stress that enough. You have to listen not only with your ears, but with your heart and mind at the same time. You have to pull yourself away from the situation and look at things with a more open mind and forgiving heart. Be there for HER when she talks.Ask question that don't put blame on her, or even yourself. Sometimes just talking about future goals and finding what you both want out of your relationship makes a world of difference. Trust is a huge obstacle for many couples, regardless of genders involved. Knowing she can trust you to actually listen and share can really help make her feel more willing to initiate. My partner and I will move all the furnature out of the center of the livingroom floor, make a nest of pillows and blankets and order a pizza and watch movies together. Just cuddling and knowing we're completely there. This atmosphere of intimacy helps to relax the whole feel of the room and makes communication more easy. Simple touching exercises help too. No sex, just touch, and stay away from the sexual organs. No breasts, no pubes....just touch all over without intitiating arrousal. It's an exercise in trust and communication that really does help.

Answer 3

It happens at the same time for women living togather.
A female friend of mine has two other sisters. They have the PMS at the same time. I'm not bi and i don't suffer from the PMS maybe they don't suffer either.

Answer 4

Women living in the same household will start to synchronize, as far as having periods. Perhaps there is a strong biological reason for this, but I'm not sure why.

Answer 5

Usually, when women spend a lot of time together, they end up having their period at the same time.

But, I actually have to agree. There are times when I think it would be a lot easier to be a Lesbian then to be married to my husband, until I think about how hard it would be to be married to ME.

=)

Answer 6

They synch. up and deal with it or they stay away from each other or just fight.....my mom's a lesbian I see it all the time

Answer 7

hahahaha another funny question. I don't really know. But why they are lesbian at the first place?? I don't understand that, yet I enjoy watching it though.

Answer 8

Double the fun, yet double the trouble.

Answer 9

i really try not to think about it. freaks me out!

Answer 10

their cycles merge together - not sure how they do it