2006-12-20 01:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Depends on the girl sweetheart and what her agenda is... (Yes, EVERYONE has an agenda!)
Certain girls out there, have absolutely no use for sentiment other than to use it as a means to get what they actually want. They are usually gold diggers, bit*ches and heartless man cannibals with appetites for the beating hearts of doting men. Others just do it for sport... like baby eagles flying over helpless bunnies. They do it as practice for the big one, the rich one, the popular one.
Other girls depend entirely upon you showering them with affection and poetic sentiments that would embarrass Shelley AND Byron (and they were a hard bunch to embarrass)! They are usually clingy, weird, obsessive and God help you if you break up with them... In comes the suicide letters and stalking.
Best thing to do... is be yourself. You have every right to want what you want. But just be careful that what you want actually wants you in return. Nothing like wasting time on a woman you can't have... some men however LIVE for the game and want what they want because they can't have it.
It is a shame considering how very much time we waste trying to fit square pegs into round holes.
Find another square. Looks and popularity are not everything! Decency, honesty, loyalty and companionship are better by far. Usually you don't fingure that out though, until your heart has been ripped out and replaced so many times, you have little left of it to give to the one who actually deserves it.
Learn early what is worth what and to whom...
2006-12-20 01:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. humans in general have a soft spot for the underdog, that is natural. The female species also have the maternal instinct to mother the weak pitiful ones.
If you are planning to win the heart of your lady by playing that game, dont. She could end up being temporarily kind you but to choose you as a mate based on that is quite illogical.
Her pity might be easy to win, but that will be a very long way to her heart
2006-12-20 02:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not so!, especially if she's thinking well. It depends you know. It's a new world out there. It also depends on who's girl's heart melted, maybe she's a dreamer or living in fantasy. She should be wise and cautious.
2006-12-20 02:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being to kind to her will only make her think that since you can't spark attraction by simply being yourself you try to buy her with charity. Try having fun together and enjoy some good time and also help her but not too much otherwise she might take advantage. and one other thing Dont think that just because YOU would want the help She will also. Girls are different from boys homie. Different mentality
2006-12-20 01:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by geniousyo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Compliments frequently do it - "i think of you're very beautiful", "you're very candy", and then p.c.. something that he does - possibly he cares for his mom or something, and you may say that it relatively is nice. because you're the two apprehensive, you additionally can tell him that he makes you apprehensive because you like him lots. If that doesn't soften his heart, no longer something will. to date as telephones pass, they tremendously lots consistently suck. i might lots somewhat have a face-to-face communication then a telephone call. You get lots greater out of it.
2016-10-15 07:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by troesch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will definitely take more than kindness. There has to be some sort of connection there. The whole chemistry thing. Kindness alone will definitely not cut it (although conversely, meanness should be a deal breaker).
2006-12-20 01:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindness will melt anyone's heart, but remember, you can't MAKE someone love or care for you no matter what you do ---maybe it's time to broaden your horizons and share that kindness with someone else, someone who will appreciate you for it!
2006-12-20 02:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT NECESSARILY!! Whoa!! Hold on there, boy! This kind of thinking can get you all messed up! Of course, the answer to this question LARGELY depends on the girl...but too much kindness can make a girl sick to death of you, want to puke, or give them the feeling that you are nothing but a fake phony!
2006-12-20 01:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by crazynays 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Unfortunately, many young women have had a rough family life and end up being attracted by men like dear-old-dad, and not some kind and generous soul.
2006-12-20 01:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's worth a try, but be prepared for her to still react the same. some women have cold hearts.
2006-12-20 01:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋