if yes against who? and why? I have to many to count!
2006-12-20 01:18:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No, I put it down on a List and keep that locked in the safe.
If you hold too many inside and don't release them to the List, it'll start to wear on you.
Every so often I pull the list out, check it twice, make corrections and deletions and add new, take a deep breath and then lock it back up.
2006-12-20 01:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't hold grudges at all bcuz it just makes an angry person out of you. I choose to forgive, but I don't forget.
Forgiving releases yourself from anger and actually calms you. Even if a person is truly sorry for whatever took place, they can never go back in time and change it anways, so why be angry forever about it? I don't forget because some ppl will continue to cause issues, sometimes even more once they know what gets to you, so I just keep a watchful eye so I don't get taken a second time.
Screw me once, shame on you. Screw me twice, shame on me.
I have a SIL who is a total manipulative witch whose head drugs apparently do not work, and although I will never do anything for her ever again eventually I will have to deal with her on some level until hubby's bro gets a clue and divorces her ***. Chances are she'll walk away from him first and take his biz with her - she's just a money-grubbin ****, so it's just a matter of time. Simply existing p's this chick off, so no matter what anyone does it's never good enough so ppl just keep walking away and she keeps playin the victim.
2006-12-20 09:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by hjfr27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I hold grudges against several people, because of things they have done to me. I've been abused and mistreated by a few people and they've not as much as shown remorse for what they did to me, let alone apologized or tried to make it up to me, so I don't have a reason to forgive them or pretend they never did those things.
I don't let it occupy my mind much though, I don't want anger and hate to eat me up inside, but I must admit that I don't like being around those people at all, although sometimes I have to.
2006-12-20 09:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by @*o*@ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I really don't hold grudges. You have to forgive people and give them a chance to change. I've done plenty of dumb things in my life and I wouldn't want someone holding them against me forever.
2006-12-20 09:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by DGS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i hold grudges And i wont break either that person had to do the talk n 1st cause i wont.
2006-12-20 09:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by nicole_252006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm bad for holding grudges,against my Ex,I think that's self explanatory. lol
2006-12-20 09:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sadly I do..
At my ex-husband for being abusive.
At a so called "friend" who slept with my ex-husband while him and I were still married.
At my fiance's ex-wife for something she recently did to us.
That's pretty much it...Could be worse I suppose.
2006-12-20 09:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes I do.
2006-12-20 09:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, the world..becuz..
2006-12-20 09:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i try not to, but i do a little...eventually they pass
2006-12-20 09:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by should be working 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋