2006-12-20 01:09:49 · 19 answers · asked by Kedar 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I mean, someone that you have only met on-line, or some other inconventional way.
2006-12-20 01:47:16 · update #1
Who says that you cannot love someone without meeting? Maybe their relationship will outlive most conventional offline relationships as theirs is based not on the physical but the emotional connection.
2006-12-20 02:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by kevin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could be in love, but what does that mean? Are you obsessed with the fantasy you envision of someone you have never touched or seen F-2-F?
People in these places are often lonely, and many linger here for different reasons. The person we meet here is 'perfect' because we get to meet their 'virtual' self, before we can make judgments about their appearance, etc.
This brings together people on-line, who might never be compatible off-line.
One of my friends met her significant other on-line, and they seem to be planning a commited life together, so this tells me true love is possible online.
I think this is rare, though, because once you get to know someone on-line, you still have to wake up and roll over, and look at their scrunched up morning shrivel-face and ask yourself -- is this the man or woman I want to wake up to for the rest of my life?
I don't see how this is possible on-line, until you actually meet in person and test your attraction.
Until then, you might have found the 'right' one, but the more important question you might ask yourself is, "Am I being the kind of person I want to be?"
If you are truly being the kind of person you want to be, then you will attract into your life the kind of person you can really fall in love with, every day forever.
If you are unhappy with your life, or with the circumstances of your life, you will find that the internet 'grass' will always appear temptingly 'greener.'
But reality might set in, once it's time to physically please your digital lover, take out the real trash without being asked, and maybe even mow his non-migapixal lawn, for the first time.
2006-12-20 17:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by Marc Miami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you can feel a closeness to a person that you have never met in RL but these feelings are only as substantive as the medium by which the communication occured.
There is NO substitute for face to face meetings. It is harder to wear masks so you can see a better view of the real person. Facial expressions and body language tell a story all their own.
2006-12-20 09:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is definately possible. If you find the guy attractive and he feels the same way about you you will know. Do you smile for have an awesome feeling in your heart when you chat or see him on the cam? Do you ache to here is voice? You can make each other feel safe, loved and not even meet in person.
Good Luck... Enjoy life to the fullest.
2006-12-20 10:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by beachguy_41 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can Imagine the Ideal Woman/Man in your Mind and fall in Love with the Image
I would not Recommend going through the rest of your Life looking for them Though
2006-12-20 09:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by uksawatdii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can happen. You talk you laugh you tell each other practically everything. It can definitely happen you can fall in love with who they really are and not the fakeness that we tend to give in person when we first meet someone.
2006-12-20 10:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure....if a tree falls in the forrest and there is nobody there, does it make sound?
How could you fall in love with someone you haven't met...how would you know anything about them?
2006-12-20 09:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Shoe Lover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes....
for example: this happened 5 months ago....
i met this guy in ym...he's a friend of my friend
i fell inlove with him after 3 months of chatting with him...but i became sad cause i found out that he had a gf in france.....but then i told him that we can be friends....then i finally met him 2 weeks ago and he was so kind, funny and etc....then right now...im chatting with him and asked for his blood line and he said portugese...then i said what!!!!and then i told him the family name of my grandfather and then he said that we might be cousins!!!ill tell you more next time...im still chatting with him
2006-12-20 09:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but thats infatuation really...unless you talk/meet/live/spend some time with the person, you will never get to know the real her and your real emotions..
2006-12-20 09:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by Shubho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do.
2006-12-20 09:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sherbet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋