Is it wrong to expect support rather than criticism or cattiness?
2006-12-20 00:52:03 · 16 answers · asked by suzzieQ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Society and advertising has programmed women to think we must be in competition with one another. Probably because if we could ever band together there would be some massive changes.
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2006-12-20 00:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by PrincessPlum 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The Western model of social interactions or "behavior" teaches the girl, from the earliest days, that other girls are "enemies" and that she should compete with them. It is an ancient feminist postulate. In such a manner the male society can better hold power and rule women's lives.
Women are great friends who can give genuine support
2006-12-20 01:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by blue_amygdala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to expect support. Some women feel threatened by other women for various shallow reasons. It's so much easier to be kind. There's a whole "nurses eat their young" theory that addresses this same issue. Newly graduated nurses don't always get a warm welcome from seasoned veteran nurses. It's crazy. If you find the answer, please let me know.
2006-12-20 01:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by afbrat65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are naturally critical. It is competition. But you are right, your friends should be supportive and if they do have criticism it should be delivered in a compassionate manner.
I am assuming that you are talking about your friends when you are asking this question.
2006-12-20 01:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by cajohnson667 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like support also, but I have found that women in general are critical and untrustworthy. They are competitive and will talk about you behind your back and stab you in the back every chance they get.
2006-12-20 00:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by Beth T 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is often reported that we continually criticize what we dislike the most about ourselves. they do this because they understand they are unattractive, and take a verify out to compensate with the help of making relaxing of others who're unattractive in hopes to distract from their personal unattractiveness. (subconsciously for sure, they don't comprehend they are doing it) human beings will also use positioned downs to make themselves experience more beneficial about themselves.
2016-12-01 00:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other women are most always seen as competition. Either in the work place or the play place. They feel inclined to put them down in order to build themselves.
2006-12-20 00:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To them it's normal but to us it looks hostile why, because the area in the brain responsible for hostillitly is larger in women than in men.
2006-12-20 01:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are crazy. at least the vast majority of them are. women do not want others to look better, and be better. We are naturally jealous creatures. now not all women, but those crazy ones love to judge and backstab.
2006-12-20 00:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women think that making other women look bad, makes them look good.
2006-12-20 00:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋