Im a 24 year old guy. just started having sex recently
and my gilrfriend says am not good that i come so easily.
please help
2006-12-20 00:49:55 · 21 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
think of your mom, that will do it until you get the experience to control yourself
2006-12-20 00:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by treetown2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think yo chic cld have pointed it out in a nicer way but that's besides the point. Dont panic. If you ever playd tennis try and remember your very first time - how good at it were you. Now think of your 5th, 20th 70th time. You probably got much better with experience. Its the same deal with sex and other physical activities. U'll get better.
As for trying to last try these tips:
Think of something else when u are abt to come.
Stop-start-stop - that is, stop thrusting when u feel u may come soon, use yo hand on her clit in this time while u regain strenth then start again.
Round two lasts longer - do it first time and come then wait to regain your ereection. You'll usually last better in round two
Use a condom
Otherwise if these fail (highly unlikely) u shd concentrate on foreplay so that she comes and will therefore be less worried abt yo duration.
Enjoy
2006-12-20 01:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need practice, stamina comes with time. If you masturbate, make a point of taking a long time, that helps you last during sex, too. There are also condoms available which are extra strength - they're thicker than regular condoms, and some of them contain a little bit of a solution which helps numb the guy, the theory is if you can't feel it as much, you'll last longer. I'm not sure how well that works, though...
2006-12-20 00:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by MrMarblesTI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is when you feel you are about to ejaculate, pull out and apply pressure to the glands of the penis, which is located just under the head on the shaft. This may take a few seconds, but this will supress the urge. Another way,is to use extra lubrication, when there is less friction, your sensation will be decreased, and it will ultimatly take longer for you to arrive. I hope this works for you, I have heard this is a common problem, also, don't stress about it or things will only get worse. Merry Christmas.
2006-12-20 00:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. SmartyPants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOW DOWN. The reason you're having this problem is that your body gets too excited too quickly and you loose control (obviously, sorry). Try and slow things down for you and your girlfriend, prolong the exploration of each other, remember the goal is not to get off, but to satisfy each other in an expression of how you truly feel about each other. Take the time to make her "happy" without thinking about your own "happiness", it might help and will show you (if you pay attention) what it is that your girlfriend likes so you can continue to do those things in the future.
Good luck.
2006-12-20 00:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 00:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind control
2006-12-20 00:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your kegle muscles.The same kind of muscles that you use to get that last drop of pee out when you use the bathroom this will allow you to hold it longer,if you squeeze those muscles.You will enjoy a multiple orgasm.you and your partner will enjoy intimacy better.
2006-12-20 00:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by MusicLover Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are about to come, think about something else until you lose the urge to let go. Keep doing that until you get to where you can go longer.
2006-12-20 00:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by A B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a desensitizing cream, maybe masturbate a half hour before hand, my husband has the same problem, and it's frustrating, unfortunately he doesn't care. glad to see you do. if that fails more foreplay so at least she gets off.
2006-12-20 00:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just started having sex, you need time to get your stamina. Tell your girlfriend that you have more where that came from!
2006-12-20 01:08:12 · answer #11 · answered by Molly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋