from 1year we are in love but she was engaged before & i told her to break her engagement so that we can marry but she didnt do it and at 17december2006 she got married with an man aged 35,15 years difference between them and now wants to marry me what shall i do now im 23 an age and she is 21
2006-12-20 00:49:16 · 16 answers · asked by tarrytal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
find another girl. don't be a homewrecker.
2006-12-20 00:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by ~*RaMpAgE*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has married under God, then you would be very wise to steer clear of messing around with that marriage. Regardless of whether she now expresses regret or that you feel you're younger and a better bet. She's done it, it's now out of your hands and you have no right to come between a husband and wife.
Nothing good ever comes from a person encouraging someone else to divorce because things could be 'better". The only grounds for a divorce is severe spousal abuse, or an invalid marriage to begin with.
it's up to you if you wish to interfere for the second time. She had her chance to break the engagement and stay with you, she didn't take it. She doesn't know her own mind, I would not hang around. I don't think you want to be on the end of encouraging a split between a married couple.
2006-12-20 08:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by Gus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow man thats a tough question really its hard to say. well she could get a divorce and you guys could marry, but bare in mind she has a husband and they don't tend to take that well. It will be a big mess i bet if that happens. If I were you i'd tell her to find her own way out of it and after its all done with to come and talk to you. Honestly man it seems like you've did all u could you told her not to and i know u love her but its gonna make it tough on you. I would try to move on but you have to follow your heart man or u'll never be happy.
2006-12-20 08:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by orestes19832003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, she is leading you on a merry chase! He must have money. I would feel a little snubbed, if I were you. Just remember; once a cheater, always a cheater!
My advice would be to drop her like a hot potato, & tell her to make up her damn mind before she makes a lifetime commitment in the future. If she's willing to divorce him to marry you, what makes you think she won't do the same to you when someone "better" comes along?
The word "fickle" mean anything to you? I wish you luck with that one, you're going to need it!
2006-12-20 08:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy Cuccia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, dude, if she didn't break her engagement before to be with you, what makes you think she's going to break her marriage now? Honestly. If she is serious about ending her marriage though, then let her handle it and don't get involved until after she takes the first step to doing so. She's obviously indecisive and fickle, so let her deal with this. She can probably still get the marriage anulled. Hope everything works our for you.
2006-12-20 08:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by crayolaskies07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do- tell her how you feel and wait for her to get a clue- clearly she didn't care enough about you to drop the wedding. You can't have your cake and eat it too as they say- don't be a fool for love. Give her some time- if she doesn't make a move- then you move- ON!
2006-12-20 08:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she feels she has made a mistake, and wants to marry you. You can say one line of encouragement, "if you divorce him, I will marry you." That's it, don't push it after that and let her make her decision. But if I were you, I wouldn't hold my breath, it seems to me that she has been stringing you along, and will continue to do so for as long as she can.
2006-12-20 08:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a home wrecker. Leave the married ones alone and learn some grammar.
2006-12-20 08:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should take some English lessons, and then let that lady and her husband alone while you look for a new girlfriend.
2006-12-20 08:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by gonzalocamilez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just got married 3 days ago. leave her alone.... if she really wanted to be with you, she would have not walked down the isle, and gotten married.
2006-12-20 08:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by BigMaMa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she does leave her husband for you....you will know what to expect the next time a younger and better looking guy comes her way
2006-12-20 08:52:04 · answer #11 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋