2006-12-20 00:37:56 · 20 answers · asked by lovemybae(: 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
#1-how would that make your friend feel---I mean really....is he REALLY worth loosing your BF?
#2-what makes you think that if he did it to her, he wouldn't do it to you....and how would that make YOU feel....
I say stay away from him and keep your nose clean....no guy who isn't shy about being a cheater is worth all the drama it can bring.
2006-12-20 00:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No most definitly not, would you want to take a risk of losing your best friend over a man that might be gone the next day. would you really want to do that to your friend? how does she feel about him?,are they still together? I know it's a very hard thing but just think about it you might go out with him and she will never know but then if you don't like him once you get to know him and she knows that you were seeing him then you might lose them both!!!!
I hope i did'nt discourage you, just think about it, think about what you think is right or not!!
hope I could help you in some way. Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-20 00:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you should not go with him. she is your best friend and you need to tell her about how her boyfriend asked you out behind her back. You need to point out that she should break up with him because he is not trustworthy and she needs to stop the relationship before she gets hurt. Please do not TELL her to to break up but just simply say that it would be very wise to do so, and tell her you are her best friend and you would never do anything that would hurt her or cause her to have a broken heart. Hang out with her and comfort her. Another thing that might help you, Ask yourself this question: If I was my friend and I was dating this hot guy who you thought was loyal and you had no idea about his asking your friend out behind your back, would she want your friend to tell you about it and say no or would you rather not know and later hear about how yoour boyfriend was cheating on you WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND how would you feel? Most likely hurt and feel betrayed by your friend and your boyfriend. This is just advice and i hope that you consider all these things, but you do not have to take my advice, you can take someone else's.
2006-12-20 03:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would really date a guy your 'friend' dated? Then you ain't her friend and go for it. If you are really her friend then this question wouldn't come out your head. Tell her and let the chips fall where they may.
2006-12-20 03:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by ScottishhoustonGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...what kind of friend are you? would you want your best friend to go out with the guy you are dating?
Also you should tell your friend that this creep asked you out.
2006-12-20 00:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um no. You also need to let your friend know what a jerk he is. Just think if you were dating him and he asked your friend out wouldn't you want her to tell you.
2006-12-20 01:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. They are not married.
2. Be prepared to loose your friend if you gain her guy!
3. He'll dump you as soon as someone better comes along.
4. You'll loose your friend and her man!
2006-12-20 00:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter affect run as far away as possible lol okay this is the thing 1st if he'll do this to her you know he'll do it to you..... next and most importantly if he is willing to hurt your best friend like that you don't need him around anyways.
2006-12-20 01:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by heartbreak ahead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy and i say it depends, if yo girl still like him get his number but no not even if they break up. She still may have feelings for him. Plus u still dont go with someone who went with yo friend
2006-12-20 00:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by jealousy_follows 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course not....n u should tell ur friend bout it too...n ask her 2 dump him..coz by asking u out it shows dat he isn't serious with ur best friend..n he's a playa..its better losing a hot guy than losing ur best friend..
2006-12-20 00:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋