do you tihnk thats why girls become whores becaues they dont care anymore?
2006-12-20 00:11:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I was molested for most of my childhood, then date raped at 18. I never became a 'whore', as you put it. I had a few boyfriends in my life but never truly trusted any of them, or any other men for that matter. Why would I when it was men that hurt me for my whole life? Anyway, I have finally found someone that I can totally trust and I plan to marry him next year. Do I still have fears about some things concerning him and other men? Yes, and I probably always will. Do I let it stand in the way of being with the one I love more than life itself? No way! Do I let it stand in my way of taking care of myself and doing what I want or need to in life? No way!
Just because a girl loses her virginity from rape does not mean that she will become, or even has become, a 'whore'. It means that someone has done something horrific to her. IF she does become a whore, then it is a choice she made; it's not because of something that happened to her.
2006-12-21 06:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the weak ones yes, but for the strong no. I lost mine because I was molested, and I never became a whore. As I grew I had every single chance to become one, and I did have sex with a lot of guys, any one called me a whore, they never did to my face, I really didn't care what they thought, I was doing my thing, my hormones were racing, still I decided it wasn't the route I wanted to take. So in a sense I did care for myself.
2006-12-20 16:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my case no. I lost my verginity at the age of 5. then was raped again at 16 by my best friend and 2 other boys i don;t know. After that I trusted no guys for the longest time. I just stayed to myself. I have now finally found somone to spend the rest of my life with. I consider him as my first.
2006-12-21 13:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by applegrower 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To become a whore is no different than becoming a baseball player.
In other words, WE MAKE CHOICES on this planet.
Some select the right path and others do what seems right to them but dangerous at the end of it all.
Life is a series of decisions.
Guido
2006-12-20 20:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, acutually girls who are raped are less likely to become whores I would think because they loose a certain degree of trust around guys making them more careful.
2006-12-20 22:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Gunmetal Grey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think thats why your mother became a whore but thats not true for all poor unfortunate girls who thats happened to
2006-12-20 15:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
NO!!!!
2006-12-20 17:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Abundant Life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋