2006-12-20 00:02:23 · 14 answers · asked by kaitlyn 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Second on the calling Planned Parenthood advice. You need to get a pregnancy test and learn about your options before telling your mom. You can choose between adoption, abortion and keeping the baby. You can learn more about these options on the Planned Parenthood website and from a counsellor at Planned Parenthood. Because babies are very expensive and you are too young to work, if you choose not to have an abortion and would rather keep the child than give it up for adoption, you will need the support of your parents.
Planned Parenthood counsellors are able to help you with telling you're parents and offer whatever support you need. If you find out that you are not pregnant and would like to continue having sexual intercourse although it may be unadvisable given your age, you can get 'the pill' at Planned Parenthood and they will not tell your parents. You can also get access to free condoms, the morning after pill and testing for sexually transmitted infections.
You can also use a test from a drug store to see if you are pregnant, remember that false negatives do occur, so continue to test until you get your period or go to the doctor.
2006-12-20 00:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First call Planned Parenthood - the number is the phone book. They can do a pregnancy test and give you information on how to keep from getting pregnant in the future. Find out if you actually are pregnant before hitting your Mom with a shocker like this. It can really make things unpleasant for you. Secondly, please realize that by having sex you are running the risk of getting pregnant - and that means raising a child when you're a child yourself. Ask yourself if a 15 minute act of sex is worth giving up your entire life for another person that you don't even know yet (a baby). Good luck, I'll be holding you in my thoughts.
2006-12-20 00:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by Freya 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Call planned parenthood. Go in and take a test if you are for sure then you need to tell your mother. Also stop having sex. in this day and age you can die from sex. It is not fun and it is not a game. It is something you do with one man, the one you are going to spend the rest of your life with. You will regret it I know I did. I lost my viginity at 13. The boy was older as they usually are I have regretted it ever since. All you get used for is sex. You have to pay the price. Be careful
2006-12-20 00:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Maroo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First take a pregnancy test. If necessary then consider carefully your options. 1> have an abortion 2>have child adopted 3> keep the child.
If you choose option 1 then your mom never need know, however for most mothers it would be best to tell.
No morality lecture here, it happens and the child will be very healthy. It's better than waiting until your 40 and your child to have Down's
2006-12-20 00:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by jewelking_2000 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you might be? you need to tell her that you think you are pregnant....you need to take a pregnancy test and if you are get prenatal care for you and the baby....she may be upset at first but you need to talk to her as soon as possible....if you're not then you and your mom need to talk about how to keep you from not getting pregnant in the future...
2006-12-20 02:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends...if you think your mom will throw you out of the house or do something that is extreme then no. You need help whatever your decision is you need someone you can count on...so tell her, i'm sure she will be disappointed and upset and all that but she will help you through this.
2006-12-20 00:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Monica_PS 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your mom. NOW. And STOP having sex!!!! If you are pregnant, go seek some prenatal care!
2006-12-20 00:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
at 13 you should not be having sex with a boy. you are to young. since you think you are, I would just come out and tell your mother, first sit her down and tell her that you have a problem and need to talk to her and then just tell her.
2006-12-20 00:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh gee!!! before i tell my mum i would find out 100%, see your doctor. If you find you are pregnant , well you have to tell her and there is no easy way out of it - you had sex you got pregnant, and tell your mum you won't do it again....if you keep the child which i hope you do consider you and your mum raising the child, it has been done before. Goodluck and Godbless.
2006-12-20 00:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by Flowers 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
hey gal first go and find out that wheather u r pregnant or not . have a check up and then inform to ur mom.... be cool dont get tensed..
2006-12-20 01:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋