I have been sharing a really good relationship with my husband during the first few years of our marriage..but after all these years,he says..relationship isnt so interesting..
he says,both of us are happy..but there is something missing...
any ways to make it interesting again?? friends..do help me..
any tips please???
NO MEAN COMMENTS PL...
2006-12-20 00:01:23 · 9 answers · asked by For peace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do things together like you did when you were dating. Always cherish the blessings you have and choose to be happy. My analogy of a relationship is that of a bonfire. It will go out unless you constantly feed it with kindling. Find excitement in your husband and the things you do together, give more and the law of increasing returns will be yours.
2006-12-20 00:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by syd p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in being a loving partner that makes us feel mature, well-rounded person with every chance of happiness. It is, therefore, the responsibility of every partner to do it well because, in the end, it is the only way of ensuring that a beloved companion will stay and a loving relationship, with all its rewards, will last. In this context, sex is of paramount importance, because only a loving partner can give it. then this is going to be the most exciting message you ever read.
2006-12-20 00:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Jeeves? No Ask Belbiz6! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk!!! You need to discuss this interesting thing.... Sometimes that can be as simple as planning a time to be together or maybe some toys. You both need to be on the same page about what this "Interesting" is about. If its good, then the two of you are capable of taking it up another notch.
2006-12-20 00:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by gamerunner2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you 1st meet someone the conversation is bottomless so it seems and you try to find out everything about this person. Sounds like he's got you figured out and needs you to grow. I could say spice it up in the bedroom, but thats not always the answer , you could try everything in that department but it only last for so long. Try finding something new in yourself , then share your experiance with him.... Good luck !
2006-12-20 00:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you afford therapy because you guys need it, and how does he know your happy if he just told you something is missing. Ask him to be honest and tell you whats missing, I would want honesty. Do you have to make it interesting or can he participate in the process.
2006-12-20 00:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to an adult book store, buy a french maid costume.
Rock his world.
Next month buy a nurses uniform.....
the next month something else....
Rock his world with one of these outfits once a week.
There are alot of things you can do to make it exciting.
hi heels and a trench coat... flash him and give him a wink.. head to the bedroom.... wrap yourself up in plastic wrap... whip cream is fun to work with ... etc... just let yourself go once a week into a sexy character actress... Its fun and he'll love it!
2006-12-20 00:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by sassinya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll...you two need to continue talking...figure out what's missing....a good marriage takes work and nurturing...but you have to be able to communicate with each other to figure things out....what is missing that you both would like??? Talk....good luck
2006-12-20 00:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start over, do the things you use to do when you first met.
2006-12-20 00:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he wants to do.
2006-12-20 00:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋