im 16 n my bf is 24.v hav ben 2gether 4 6months nw.i love him a lot but lately i realised it was jus nuthin i don fel te same way bout him nw as i used 2.first v wer very serious about echoter bt nw i realised im not yet ready 2 commit my life 2him.bcuz im still 16 n hes 8 yers older 2me.
n te mst hardest is that i cant evn brk up wit him bcoz ive given him so many promises,i promised him i wud bcome his wife n b wit him 4evr.he loves me alot n he cnt evn live 1 day witot seeing me or takin 2 me..
i dno im rely confused bcause i cant end it nwbcause hes rely gone 2 crazy 4 me.
n i love him but its not rite..i don think v both cn b 2gether..for te rest of our life because hes not like hes prety diffrent..
if i continue wit him hell get mor n mor into love wit me.plz plz help me..plz..
2006-12-19 23:53:55 · 7 answers · asked by aby c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The damage in your relationship is already done..
yes.. you started thinking of it. A relationship is over, when you start thinking of ending it.
Now understand, guys dont understand.. this idea of breaking up. And always fight to get the girl back.
So he will be reluctant.. and try to please you, threaten you, convince you, etc..
Be prepared for everything before you make any further step.
Before breaking up, tell him, that you feel that you should stop "talking to him, and start concentrating on studies" and tell him, that if he really loves, he should let you go, without protesting.
An understanding guy, will try to do this, if asked properly.
2006-12-20 00:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ramses-the son of light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy solutoin, give time to your relationship. Don't strangulate it. Don't kill it, it's bad Karma. Let it roll, everything will be fine, u still have some 4-6 years time to make your marriage decision. Leave it for that time.
Don't hurt anyone, Ok. U r too imature to understand a Mature person, when he says Yes, there's lot of thought after that.
Hope it will help you
2006-12-20 08:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is Your Teen age problem. Be careful at this age before you take any decision in this matter.
It is not right time to choose your life partner.
Think and Act careful. Don't feel after you spoil your life.
2006-12-20 08:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anand A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its clear tht it was infatuation. u know sooner or later this relation has 2 break so y nt now. my dear i2 m of ur age there r many more things than these things. put attention on those
2006-12-20 13:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by Muskaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I believe it is just your age.you are just 16.Concentrate on more important stuff. You will find your true love as you grow up.
2006-12-20 08:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by ashu2sinha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a cnfused lot. nobdy cn hlp u.
2006-12-20 09:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget past and start with new life. good luck.
2006-12-20 09:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by takeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋