Okay well there is this guy who has been friends with me for a longg time. & he always drops hints that he likes me more then a friend. So...he confided in someone close to me, and she told him to talk to me about it ! I'm so worried he is going to ask me out, and I really DON'T like him... I don't want to be rude, or lose his friendship. Let me also mention that he is 5 years older then me, and that I am interested in someone my age. What should I do ?
2006-12-19 23:42:58 · 9 answers · asked by Baby Doll. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha okay 2 of the answers so far were funny...But I need a serious answer. :[
2006-12-19 23:47:10 · update #1
Ugh NO I do not 'love' him. He is much more mature then me, and I am not interested in someone that age. So I think that IS a good reason for turning him down, but I prefer not to say 'rejecting' him.
2006-12-19 23:51:50 · update #2
Tell him honestly that you dont have any intense feelings for him.But at the same time you dont wanna lose his friendship.If he's mature enough he will understand you.
2006-12-20 00:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when you mature you will contact him. Right now, you want to just hang out with people your own age and act like a idiot. That should do it.
2006-12-19 23:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is very easy,talk to him nice and slowly.Then you must say `I am not interested with someone who is not in my age,sorry`. Problem solved.
2006-12-19 23:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by Naruto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age difference shouldn't be a criterion for rejecting a guy. Are you sure you don't love him?
2006-12-19 23:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you don't want to ruin your friendship and that you just see him as a friend. just be honest, but nicely! LOL good luck with that!
2006-12-20 00:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by T-NEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confronts him..
let him know the truth...i mean tell him POLITELY...
its better 4 him 2 noe by now than few more years...
trust me....
or you can find sum1 else 4 him that u think suits him...he'll appreaciates it..i think..=)
2006-12-19 23:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by evax_ian626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best way to not to be rude is tell him u have a bf
this way he will aatleast not think that u were rude to him
2006-12-19 23:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell u dont want to end up ruining ur friendship
2006-12-19 23:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by flatteredwu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay!!! I'll back off!
2006-12-19 23:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋