2006-12-19 23:40:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All men look, and it is pretty much asking yours not to BE a man if you ask him not to look. That said, he does not have to look in a way that makes you feel threatened, disrespected or inferior. He should be doing it so you do not even notice it. Don't be mad that he does it, be mad that he does it in such a way as to make you feel bad if that is what is going on.
HTH
2006-12-19 23:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can feel a little harsh to his girlfriend when he is eyeing up other women but its only natural for men to look. I wasonce told "Just because you on a diet it doesnt mean you cant look at the menu"
as long as the bloke isn't flirting with the women or pulling them or anything like that, then let it go.
Good luck.
2006-12-20 07:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it can instigate jealousy, even if they "don't mean" to do it. Guys have worse peripheral vision than women, so women can do the peeking without turning their heads and making it obvious! Guys just don't have that luxury. If the guy is loyal and doesn't make a scene when noticing a woman, it is just part of human nature.
2006-12-20 07:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK? I think there's something wrong if he doesn't. It shows he's attracted to the opposite sex.
Whether we admit it or not, we all do it. Completely natural thing, as long as it doesn't involve visually undressing the passerby.
2006-12-20 07:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is normal. Don't you look at an attractive man when you see one? I know I do and attractive females also. No, I am not gay. It is normal to look at someone or something that is pleasing to the eye. One can look as long as you do not touch. God bless****
2006-12-20 07:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Man or Woman, it is only natural to take a quick peak at the other sex. So long as you don't act on it.
2006-12-20 07:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Floss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me i think it's okay so far he doesn't flirt with them. we all look around and admire people once in a while,so why not allow the guy feed his eyes if that's all there is to it.
2006-12-20 07:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by adekunle b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I actually doubt it is ok, I have been married for 13yrs my wife knows I look at other women. I look at other women because they put it out there in the open for me. women today dress like the street walkers on the corner. boobs hanging out . thongs showing over the tops of their pants. who could expect a man not to look? but you know on the other side. I can sort of understand why there are so many lesbians, look at the pants woman wear today. they make a womans rear end look like a guys rear end. but yeah if they are going to look like ho's, I am going to look.
2006-12-20 07:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
So long as he is discrete about it (no Exorcist-Head-Spinning when the hot babe walks by), then yes, it's fine. Girls look too!
2006-12-20 07:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One should not miss any opportunity of seeing what is beautiful
2006-12-20 07:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Seagull 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋