Which guy should I choose?

Question

I like these two guys, and here's the problem: they're both twins. One is kind of serious but when he does break out he's funny, social, and sensible.

The second one is slightly shyer, always in a good mood/somewhat silly, and again, sensible. Both of them are very intelligent and, of course, look the exact same.

They both like me in their own ways, and I don't know what to do, they're each in two of my classes, separate from each other, so 4/7 of my classes.

What should I do?

Oh, and they're both confident, so I'm still stuck.

Answer 1

usually when you are stuck in
between 2 guys,
it means you are not ready.

because if 1 of them manages to
move you,
you will have no hesitation to be with him.

so take your time to slowly find out
who you love more.
no one can tell you who to choose
because its your heart & your life.

Answer 2

Well, I think you should get it on paper (sometimes it helps)
and write out the pro's and cons of each guy - then think (relationship wise), which personality matches with your attributes better -

for example, being around somone who is shy all the time can be annoyind to some as they may not always say whats on their mind.

But some people prefer it as they like a more stable quieter environment.
But give yourself a deadline like a couple of weeks otherwise you'll never decide.
hope this helped!
: )

Answer 3

I can see the problem here, but one should stand out more in some way, you need to listen to whats inside your heart and mind for this one since they both sound like a good catch from what you're telling us

Answer 4

Boy you are lucky...having the chance to choose. Choose the 1st one..serious people make more sense in a long term relationship.

Answer 5

How about you have your cake and eat it? Go out with both of em....only don't let either one of em to find out that you're also going out with the other. In that way, one will make up for the shortcomings of the other and you'll have the best of both worlds! Go for it gal...

Answer 6

I think that if it was meant to be for you to be with either of them,,,,as far as a relationship,,, you would know and wouldn't be asking this question,,,,, I don't think either or them could make you really happy for a lengthy amount of time,,,since they both have similar qualities and you like both of them,,,,,you would have to put them into one guy to complete the package,,,,and even then I don't think they would do,,,,or you would know what to do,,,,,don't settle,,,,if their are things about both of them you like,,,,why cause drama between the both of them,,,,go for someone that makes you happy entirely by his-self,,,,no twin,,,,just him alone,,,,,they look alike,,,and you really only like one,,,,but what the one you like is lacking,,,,you find in the other twin,,,???Right???,,,,

Not fair to you OR them,,,,and I would personally move on,,,,and find someone else to like in that way,,,,,that is just tooo,,,, much,,,, stress,,,,, and you deserve for someone to like you for all of you ,,,,,and for you to like someone for all of them,,,,not 1/2 of them and 1/2 their brother,,,,,



UNDERSTAND????????


GOOD LUCK,,,AND THINK ABOUT WHAT I SAID IN THE LAST SENTENCE,,,,,?????,,,,,,,

HOPE I HELPED A LITTLE,,,,

DAPHNE

Answer 7

hey just one simple answer for you.

Get to know them better.. Hang out with them when you're free.. Later, self-reflect.. "which guy will give you the most happiness".. HAPPINESS is the best gift you can get for anyone.

Amount of happiness matters most.. not chracter, material.. Follow your heart to happiness..

Good Luck

Answer 8

#2, go for the one that's generally in a better mood.

Answer 9

You should choose the seond one, I would go dating with him now if I were you!

Answer 10

Then you must talk to both of them.