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This is a little embarrassing..but masturbating seems to be my biggest problem..

I'm just wondering if it is possible to not do it at all?
It seems impossible because if I don't do it for awhile.. I feel real weird inside..sometimes I just feel increase heart rate..increase blood pressure, and get breathing problems.

My friend said masturbating is scientifically proven to be healthy and maybe if you don't watch porn while doing it..it might be okay.

What does the bible have to say and am I the only one that has this problem?

2006-12-19 21:18:21 · 13 answers · asked by 1 2 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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Masturbation is an unclean habit. (2 Corinthians 7:1) However, the Bible does not class it with serious sins such as fornication. In fact, it does not mention it at all. Therefore, a lapse into masturbation would hardly be unforgivable. Viewing it as if it were beyond forgiveness could actually be dangerous; a youth might reason that there is little point in trying to overcome the problem. But Bible principles indicate that a Christian should put forth strenuous efforts to fight this habit. (Colossians 3:5) Jehovah knows that "we all stumble many times." (James 3:2) If a relapse occurs, a youth need not feel condemned.

The same is true of other missteps and errors. Jehovah does not require that we punish ourselves with excessive guilt. Rather, he is pleased when we take steps to correct the problem.-2 Corinthians 7:11; 1 John 3:19, 20.

2006-12-19 21:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by TNT 2 · 0 1

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2006-12-19 23:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Every growing up boy has this "problem" and don't let superstitious people frighten you. There is nothing wrong with masturbation. And it has nothing to do with religion, either. It's only that unfortunately the Christian religion has this hangup about sex. Other religions are much more tolerant.
I was told as a youth that my pecker would fall off, that I would become feeble minded, and several other horror stories. It is a pity that this is still done to every young generation that grows up, despite proof to the contrary.

2006-12-19 21:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

BULL S , masturbationg is highly unhealthy , it debilitates nervous function, and drains the body of key neurotransmitters, thats way you become stupid, lame, unfunny, and sluggish, not to mention ugly too, why are stallion thoroughbred horses more agile, and energertic, and more beautiful(it shows it the fur quality and chassis, im not a horsehomo), cause theyre not allowed to breed, they are straightup neutered.


idk about christianity, but im sure theres a chapter in the bible abt Onan and his sin.....read up.
different people have different rate of sexual exhaustion, some can ejaculate again 5 minutes after intercourse, but some others have to wait 2-3 to be "recharged"
listen to your body, if it reacts like that, that maybe its time to stop, because the symptoms you describe is similar to meth addiction symptoms, which also destroys your brain, just like masturbation

2006-12-21 06:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by spaz 1 · 0 1

My question for you is Why would God give you this equipment, give you these urges, and expect you to just sit in discomfort and not do anything about it? Its a completely natural thing to masturbate. First of all, you just said it relieves those symptoms you have, but it also reduces stress, and makes you less irritable. It would be a stupid thing for God to say, here's a penis and here are some sexual urges...now DO NOT TOUCH IT! It would be sadistic and cruel if it were true. But you know what? Its not true. Jerk off as much as you want. And who cares about porn? Its just videos of people getting their jollies off just like you are. No shame in it.....really.

2006-12-19 21:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Abby C 5 · 2 0

If you are in your teens, then it is understandable. In fact the body has a way of coping with this, through your wet dreams. But as you grow , you should learn how to "cope" with it. Focus on more productive activities or hobbies. There are more useful things to do than just satisfying the carnal desire. Too much of anything is not good. I hope you got what I meant.

2006-12-19 21:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1 0

Masturbation is natural, healthy and fun. 97% of men admit they do it. 3% lie about it.

Just go ahead and enjoy it.

Who cares what middle eastern tales and legends say or dont say about it ? Those interesting works of fiction were written by men a long time ago for the enjoyment of their readers. You are not wondering what PeterPan or Snow White think of masturbation do you ? :-)

2006-12-19 21:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

The physical act is never mentioned. (Onan's sin was his refusal to have children for his brother).

What sometimes goes through one's mind can be classified as lust, and therefore sin.

If you're using artificial stimulation, get rid of that; otherwise, just don't worry about it.

2006-12-23 01:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by someone 3 · 0 0

There is no sex in the Bible, except when those 2 girls got their dad drunk and raped him, so STOP RIGHT NOW!

If you keep doing it, you will go blind and impotent.


Impotence..Nature's way of saying "No hard feelings,"

2006-12-20 02:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

masturbation is healthier than prostitutes, and a lot cheaper, No where in the bible does it say its wrong,

2006-12-19 21:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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