I ran into him downtown a couple months ago.I hadnt seen him in about 7 yrs.Sparks were flying. But he didnt ask for my #.He got my # a couple months later from his mom & asked me out.He just got out of a 3yr relationship a couple months ago & he waited to ask me out.We hit it off BIG time.We spent the whole weekend together & I also dumped the other guy I was dating.He was so into me & told me it was weird how comfortable he felt with me.We also both speak Czech so we are culturally the same too.He told me he loved sleeping next to me & called me his lasko (love).He went to LA for business for a couple days & sent me a few texts- I didn't respond- was giving him space because he mentioned he was not ready for a realtionship & I wanted him to chase. I can tell he was a bit hurt though.He went to LA again 2 days later 4 a week, I didn't respond to his texts all the time.He wanted to see me the day he got home I told him I have company.He took it hard. Now he wants to be friends?
2006-12-19 19:30:09 · 12 answers · asked by gltfree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's what you get for not following your heart and playing games with people. You blew him off one to many times and attempted to play hard to get, which is a risky game. Learn your lesson from this and go about things differently next time you meet someone you like.
-NmD!
2006-12-19 19:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wanting to give him a chase is one thing... ignoring him is another. you need to tell him the truth. that is your only hope of falling in love happily ever after now. tell him you wanted him to have to catch you and that you didnt want to get too in to anything because of what he said about his ex
1. tell him you are sorry for hurting his feeling
2. tell him what you feel about him
3. tell him that you were wrong to ignore him
4. have a nice long talk and have him tell you things that will hurt his feelings and tell him things that will hurt yours. this may have been what his ex did to him which may make him extremely sensitve.
i the future, ignoring a text or 2 to be playful is ok... but a whole weeks worth AND telling him that you have plans when he gets back is just mean and hurtful...
learn your lesson from this, and if you do get another chance... be greatful... and NEVER do this again
2006-12-20 03:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by andie... you know you love me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is done is done. As long as you realised you've regretted it (which I hope you did) and you still want to be with him then tell him the truth that you thought he wasn't ready and wanted to give him space...if you said he did have feelings for you...he will understand. Try again...for all you know it will make your relationship stronger...... But you've got a hell of a lot of making up to do.... Good luck!!
2006-12-20 03:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So much for playing hard to get you've played it right out of your hands.Why don't you try sending him some texts on your own?You must have showed him that you're really not interested in him by doing that so the best is try build it up again,do it out of the blue to surprise him like"Saw... and thought about you"
2006-12-20 04:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by Storm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn Girl! What is it with this playing hard to get, when you stayed with him for a weekend? Now you have hurt someone whom may just move on. He has already had enough hurt with ending his last relationship. Quit playing games! Your not a very nice person. He deserves better!
2006-12-20 03:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are the one pulling away.
you two have just started, I'm not asking to jump on him or cut him off completely.
Stay close, stay cuddled, keep the flame burning big and strong.
Careful, he might have another girl now.
Talk to him, sound him out, but don't interrogate.
2006-12-20 03:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by ricodzeus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you rejected him. Bad manipulation on your part. Just tell him you like him a lot and were playing hard to get. You already crushed him, at least let him know why.
2006-12-20 03:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why play games, He was trying to contact with you and you blew him off. He dosent know what you want so being just friends he wont get hurt as bad. Take it slow and talk to each other about it.
2006-12-20 03:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Yonni 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations on screwing up what would have been a perfect relationship! Enjoy the rest of your life!
2006-12-20 03:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Harry Fingerman 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
hey it is all esoteric. Do not fall for him he is not real and does not love you. Back off now.
2006-12-20 03:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋