Ok, i've been with my girlfriend for about a month now but things are kinda rough. We hardly ever talk or see each other. I ALWAYS have to initiate the conversation. I can walk right past her, look her in the face and she would't say a word. I feel as if she doesnt want to really be with me. During the few moments that we do talk things are great. Im a senior and she's a freshman so I can understand if she's a little shy. But my question is this: there is another girl, one of my exes. It's been about 3 years since we broke up but things are kind of starting to heat up again. I think I can honestly say that I love her (my ex). I don't know if I should break up with my girlfriend for my ex or stay with my girlfriend and see if things will become better. What should I do?
2006-12-19 19:22:39 · 11 answers · asked by xn0sis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty is the best policy...
Why not talk to the current girlfriend about your fears and see what she says about your communication.If she doesnt want to be with you,it'll be a fair break and you'd be able to move on to the ex without hurting someone else...
2006-12-19 19:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the ex or a new girlfriend because it seems like your current GF isnt giving you the time of day. Just make sure that if you are getting back with your ex that it didn't end the first time with something like someone cheating on the other otherwise one of you is going to have huge trust issues with the other.
2006-12-19 19:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the girl your with, see why she is acting the way she is. let her know if something don't start to change you want to call it quits. Then go with your ex. But at least give the girl your with a chance before you end things!! Good Luck!!
2006-12-19 19:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by noramom4life101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with the ex (I can't believe I'm saying this).
The little girl you're dating now needs to mature a little before she can have a decent relationship. That needs time. For her sake, dump her and go with your ex. Just make sure she doesn't realize that you had a girl waiting on you to dump her.
2006-12-19 19:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems like a perfect situation for a threesome. You can be intimate with your ex that you love while helping your new girlfriend to stop being so shy!
2006-12-19 19:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Harry Fingerman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you dont love anyone lol. You're just a senior in high school. I wouldn't expect anyone to find "love" until they're in their mid 20's and ready to get married. My advice to you, do what makes you happy. Your young, no need to be worrying about getting into serious relationships at that age. Just make sure you dont knock anyone up and you'll be good.
2006-12-19 19:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people wait in vain if they don't have the courage to mention the problem.Only you can make the decision but I would talk to girlfriend and find out if ther is a problem with the relationship...
Goodluck...
2006-12-19 19:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go after the ex. it will just wind up getting messy. stay with what you have. you go after the ex, and you'll have expectations of what you want. that's a bad thing. oh, and no you don't love your ex. you may think you do, but you don't.
2006-12-19 19:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your girlfriend let her know how you feel. Ask her what she wants from the relationship. And let her know what you want.
2006-12-19 19:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by Yonni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S YOUR CHOICE!
2006-12-19 19:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~ISABELLA~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋