what should i do? im in love with 2 guys...?

Question

what should i do? im in love with 2 guys...
one is my bf that i've been with him for 7 years.
another i met him on the net since 2 years a go. but i never met him.
i realize that i love them a lot..
what should i do with both relationship?
Do i have to dump the guy one the net??
help me?? im confused!!!

Answer 1

I was in love with 3 but I still managed to carry on will all 3. Today I have my true love living with me.

Answer 2

The guy on the net is providing something that is lacking with your long time love. You need to determine what it is and try to incorporate it into your first relationship. You also need to stop seeking out relationships on-line. This is so very unfair to the one you are with. You cannot actually love someone you have never met. You can think it's real love, but it has not withstood any of the trials that make relationships strong...or real. You should end it. Inside yourself you know that you have to make a decision.I think you even know which decision is right. You aren't as confused as you are reluctant to give up on something that is fulfilling a need in you. Isn't it possible that you are bored with your primary relationship? If that is true...you have a responsibility to breathe new life into it. That is what love is about. Falling in and out of love with the same person, over and over again for a lifetime, hopefully. You actually have times when you don't feel entirely in love with them anymore. But when you put a little work into renewing the spark by looking at new and interesting, and fun ways to deal with the changes you have both made, you will love that person all over again..even more. Trust me.

Answer 3

Why are you getting involved with some1 else when you have a bf? How can you give up on your bf when you've never met this other person? How do you know this person isnt lieing about his real identity? I think you should not be in a serious relatiuonship at this time.Do the bf a favor & end the relationship or just date.The net guy,,maybe meet him but only in a public place & with other people also.If you are not adult,,do not meet anyone.Never tell anyone on the net anything about your personal life or your real name or address or school/job.When you are confused & dont know what to do,,maybe you shouldnt do anything.Step back,,take time & review the situation.I dont think you are happy with bf or you wouldnt be out looking elsewhere.The guy on the net is not really reality.

Answer 4

Don't sit in two boats, you will be in great trouble other than.
You met a guy on net and you think its love no my dear this is not love, just an attarction. I saw many people feel like same as of you but later they realise that they were wrong.
Don't cheat ur BF. Forgot the net guy and be honest with ur BF

Answer 5

Most will advise you to stick with your bf. But honestly, don't you already know the answer? Do you need a second opinion before you are satisfied with your own? Firstly, if you really love and happy with your bf, why in the first place did you get involve with the net guy? That question, you have to answer yourself, then you will be able to decide wisely. No one can really give you the answer here, it is your life, right or wrong decisions, YOU have to make them and live with them. Just remember, black and white, they are easy to differentiate, but shades of gray?

Answer 6

Wait, you are actually dating someone over the internet? No. That's all I can say. Stay with the guy that you've been with for seven years if you still love him. Two guys is about the worst thing you could do. They'll wind up killing each other (hopefully not literally), and lose faith in you at the same time. Besides, I notice that people act a lot different in person than over the internet.

Answer 7

ok... im just guessing that you have come to terms with your own sexuality, rather recently.. now, you gained a bf only 2 days, and now your feeling the pressure of having extracurricular emotions for someone you really dont even know if theyre even swingin for the same team as you... i guess the only advice i can give in this situation is, put all other emotions, feelings, and concerns aside, and approach this friend you feel so strongly about.. bring some light chat to him and see what his feel is on gay relationships, and kind of poke an prod from there, no pun intended... if he argues an doesnt conform or insert proper word here, then accept his personal declaration of sexuality, either hetero or homo, and you take the next step.. if its a risk you wanna take, and you have a strong inclination your good friend is rollin in the direction you are, then its up to you.. on the other hand, if you a great thing happening with your current bf, then ultimately, its a gamble, and for me personally, im not much of a gambler, but thats just me.. best of luck..

Answer 8

how can you love someone you've never met? maybe ask yourself that, and realize that you are cheating on your bf of 7 years!!! think about it, would you be happy if he was online dating some super hot chick that was hotter than you and falling in love with her??

you need to straighten up and get rid of the net guy and tell your bf that you were emotionally cheating on him. That's what you're doing, you are CHEATING. you are a CHEATER. think about the implications this has. then decide.

Answer 9

I will give you two option one forget the guy on the net cause you've never met him if that does not work tell your boy friend to help advice you.that is one of there duties any way.

Answer 10

Stick with your boyfriend. At least you know what he's really like, this guy on the net could be a complete freak