Im 17 right, and im in the last year of secondry school with a bunch of 15 year olds (dont laugh - the classes are all in Spanish...well, catalan and spanish) and theres a guy in the year below me who is 15, 16 in about a month or 2...but he´s WAY bigger thn me(like taller...he´s MASSIVE)...and he lives in my village...and he´s reaally fit (he does rowing) and he´s a reaaaally nice guy too!
Should I? I´ve got a reputtion to keep up but....what should i do?
2006-12-19 19:02:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it Hun....love is love and when you reach 40 you'll be goin' for younger men anyway.....give the guy a chance....he's nearly legal so what's it matter he is a year younger?!! stupid reason for not goin' after him....you'll regret it if you don't and you know it......
2006-12-19 19:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by JackLove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reputation to keep? Keep up this good work and all you will get are the leftovers. When I was younger, I had always prefered older ladies, not too old by older, maybe 1 to 2 years older. The reason for this was that I find older women more matured, and I find them somehow exciting! And this is in Asia, where the society norm was that the guy is usually 5 to 7 years older! I learned a lot from these relationships, older ladies are more open and receptive to opinions and differing thoughts.
For your case, I would say just go ahead, the age difference would not amount much to a generation gap! Show some interest, and if he IS interested in you, his actions will somehow show. Just be a little more sensitive towards his actions, and you will know. Good luck
2006-12-19 19:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by glastnot 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you believe it is worth pursuing, than by all means go right ahead. The reason that many choose the older person is the maturity and the fact that they can have a decent conversation and have many things in common. Take these factors into account before you decide on the move. All the best.
2006-12-23 15:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by idfg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's almost 16 that would make you only a year older than him which isn't a big difference. Jut be aware that he probably isn't as mature as you. I'm kind in the same situation except I'm a 16 yar old girl who likes a 14 year old guy.
2006-12-21 12:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My high school girlfriend was just about a year older than me. We wound up staying together for 3 years, and had a lot of GREAT times. I'm sure glad she went for it.
I guess the point to what I'm saying is this: If you don't go for it, you'll always wonder, and when you get out of high school, and that kind of reputation doesn't mean much to you anymore, and you're sitting in your apartment on your couch, you'll only be left with a "what if" lingering over you.
2006-12-19 19:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by starofiniquity 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would seem that age is your primary concern and you are using his physical size and "almost 16 in a month or two" to justify the difference. In my opinion, this age difference (under 2 years) isn't anything significant. Assuming he really is nice, I say you should go for it.
2006-12-19 19:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by poorprae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a bit older than you! but my boyfriend is 3 years younger than me. Nothing wrong with an age difference!! You wouldn't think anything of you were younger than him! lol
2006-12-19 19:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by eeore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not? my mate is 16 and his girlfriend is almost 18, and they're really happy together, and it's only a couple of years after all...
2006-12-21 06:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider about the guy,but if he is nice with you I think you talk and become more close to ensure whether you can go far,I mean more than friend...
2006-12-19 19:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by Flynn palikat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think its wrong, you're not hanging out with guys 20 years younger.
2006-12-19 19:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Louy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋