like how can i stop being shy?
n talk to ppl more..especially girls?plz help me..
sumtimes shy ppl start to sweat n gets them more shy..help iz needed plz!
2006-12-19 18:48:52 · 12 answers · asked by ANONYMOUS 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2006-12-19 20:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-25 17:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Garry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-21 11:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what others think. You must be like the bridge support in the river. You bend, not break. if you feel shy, thik of that. NOTHING on this planet can change the way you feel/react to situations BUT you. Try to smile at people in the hall. it tells them "I am approachable."
LISTEN to what they say. When they complain, you say listen and say something like "wow, I dont know what I would do in that situation. "Wha are your plans?", then let them talk. If they had a good day, and keep yaking about it, say (about their subject) "what a nice day. That must have made your afternoon." Point is, dont ask a alot of questions, but keep them talking.
Once you get through that part, if they are still talking to you or llokong around bored (pull the ripcord) and move on to another one.
With a woman, it is good to slip in "flirting lines' that seem like jokes. Light their cigarette. Buy a drink.. Dont come off cheap. If they reject you, oh well. Take the high road, save you diginity.
You will be reject alot, get used to it.
Just BELIEVE that you are in control and knowing the formula, you should not have any awkward silences, and it gives you a common ground to move into stuff about you. Put dont talk about yourself alot, you seem conceited then.
Just simple answers to their questions.
If you get throughstage 2, you should at LEAST get the number.
Good luck
2006-12-20 03:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
I'm the same way- but getting better! I'm always afraid to say something stupid so I just stand there like an idiot. But I'm trying to just say something- get involved in conversations and stuff like that. It's really hard! I know it, I've always wished I was way more outgoing. It's different where I'm at to, like at the bar- I'm not very shy after a few drinks! But if your not old enough don't do that! Just calm down and relax, and just think that no one is judging you!! Good luck, hun.
2006-12-19 19:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole K 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I went to a counselor for my shyness. Together we came up with a plan for addressing it using "Systematic Desensitization," a type of therapy that's also used for treating phobias.
You don't have to see a counselor to do systematic desensitization. The link below describes how to do it on yourself. Not everybody succeeds at it on their own, so consider seeing a counselor if you feel like you need help. Look for someone who uses a cognitive-behavioral approach if systematic desensitization is what you want to try.
2006-12-19 19:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋
You are shy because
1. you have poor self image , you think you are fat ,ugly .nobody likes you ,especially girs.
2. you think too serioiosly about what others think of you. If your cat yawns you think your cat tells you are boring people.
So you have to
1. increase your self image
2.despise what others say and think of you
It is often your imagination , not fact.Usually people are busy with their own problems . They do not care about you like you think, you are not important to them.
It is very ridiculous you make yourself shy thinking everybody
is looking at you. Isnt it?
Say go to hell, shyness.
2006-12-19 22:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by earthlove 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Tlak to people every day, young and old, male and female. Work on it. Talking to strangers helps even if the material is trivial.
2006-12-19 22:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Sciman 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋
I was very shy around people especially around girls until I discovered vodka
2006-12-19 22:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by AL IS ON VACATION AND HAS NO PIC 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋
practice practice & practice
go as much social function as u can & u will change
http://getridofshyness.blogspot.com
2006-12-25 17:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by amit_rk9 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋