I'm afraid I scared him off - I wasnt sure if he was into me or not and I didnt put it all together until now. He's freaking shy! He approached me all weird-like and I thought he was weird...now I don't know how to get back in. How do I get back in?
2006-12-19 18:30:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just get closer to him and give him some space. Maybe ask him to go with you somewhere. Make sure the environment is "safe" not a lot of people so he can focus on you and get comfortable. Shy people generally open up when they can be sure that others are not going to intrude etc.
2006-12-19 18:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rabble Rouser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. i am in the same situation!! its so weird though, the guy acts all weird around you but you still like something about him... well... what i do is start flirting and talking and complimenting him on stuff... and you can tell your friends you want him to like you and they may tell him and then, he would probably definitely like you again. or, you can tell him the truth, that you actually like that. i was gonna do it yesterday but i chickend out... : (
hmm... i hope it works for you!
2006-12-20 02:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you scare him off in the first place? Were you too direct or blunt? Try apologising....and ask him if you can start again....send him a card or something.....ask him out.....
2006-12-20 02:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try limiting the high drama and just keep it simple. simply talk to him. if u scared him off, learn what an ****** being a bich means and try not to be that way in the future.
2006-12-20 02:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by richard w 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. He liked you before, it shouldn't be that hard to convince him again.
2006-12-20 02:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋