A guy tells me that he has feelings for me. He called it puppy love. Says he hasn't been this excited to get to know someone in a very long time. Great chemistry, totaly attracted to one another. We want the same things. He even said that he wanted to get to know my son. Now he is nowhere to be found. Doesn't answer calls or return msgs or txt msgs. I can't find him anywhere. What do I do?
Please be serious with your answers. I'm really worried about him.
2006-12-19 18:27:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's fine. He's already in a serious relationship or he's married. Hopefully you are not head over heels in love. Don't worry yourself about him. His a big boy. Then next time he comes back around, nonchalantly ask him what happened. Whatever he tells you take it for face value. Just learn to put your attraction towards him on a shelf somewhere. It seems to me he likes to play games or he's just inconsiderate in returning your calls.Stop calling and texting him. He received all of your calls.
Or he could be working extra hours because it's the Christmas holiday. But that's still no excuse for not returning your calls. And even if he can't talk, he can still text.
He'll call when he's ready to talk. Just don't let him swell your head and heart up with BS. You should know a suspicious lie when you hear one. Good Luck.
2006-12-19 18:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Vivian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either something has happened to him, or he decided that he doesn't want the responsiblity or someone else came along.
Ask some of his friends if he is ok. If he is, then move on to someone else. If he is not ok, then see if there is anything you can do for him so you can get back on track.
Puppy love can burn brightly, but then go out quickly too. He may not have been as serious as you were. That isn't unusual in guys. They often get a bit worried and scared when things turn more serious. The more mature (not necessarily older) guys will handle relationships better.
2006-12-20 02:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by drslowpoke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....this is just a guess and it is an educated guess and from experience (i know its horrible) but im gonna say he fed you a bunch of bs that you gobbled up quickly and fell for it and then either he got a piece or realized that it wasnt worth it and then has been probably ignoring you. You'll soon get a txt or call saying na na i havent been ignoring you im sry some bs like that and the convo will be short and sweet and then he'll do it again...until you pick up on the hint...he just isnt interested anymore and again more than likely everything he said was just bs, sweet talk...
For your sake i hope i am wrong...best of luck!
2006-12-20 02:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by wcbaseball4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately some men are more into 'The Hunt' than they are in building relationships...Other times a guy in trying to put his best foot forward instead put out a make believe Mr.Wonderful foot that he has no chance of fulfilling. Other guys are predatory are are just out to score. Dating can be confusing the Best defense is to know who you are inside and then your judgment will tend to screen out the bad apples ... Good Luck and May you find Happiness :o)
2006-12-20 02:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you become sexually active early in the relationship with him? While it may not be what you want to hear, there seems to be enough data now to suggest that the earlier you have sex, the less likely you will have a relationship.
2006-12-20 02:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anon Tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably drunk. Puppy love is for people that are in their teens. Forget about this loser and find someone else. Good luck
2006-12-20 02:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time.He will be back.
BUT
Dont believe in him unless he gives you a hard excuse for his absence. If he does not... Dump him
If he does not return in the next 30 days...
Forget him
2006-12-20 03:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I have some sad new for you. He got the milk from the cow and needs some fresher milk.
2006-12-20 02:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by cm f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people lie. people are losers. no one just disappears. hes either married or doesnt want to be with you and cant tell you the truth. if he shows up again and disappears again dont waste your time.
2006-12-20 02:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Thumper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fishy and insincere. I wouldn't trust the guy.
2006-12-20 02:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by RightLeft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋