When married, Is watching porn cheating? or going to prostitutes and forgetting about it later? This is considering my wife is just not interested with sex anymore. I am 30 years old
2006-12-19 18:19:56 · 16 answers · asked by callmeh1976 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think watching porn is cheating, but the prostitutes might be a bit over the top
if your wife won't give you sex then dump the troll and get a woman who will curl your toes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 18:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by BOOYAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn isn't cheating. But watching lots of porn by yourself (I'm not saying you are) does eventually hurt every wife's feelings. Going to a prostitute is cheating if your wife doesn't know. But I'm a 34 year old wife, and trust me--women always know. Might take them awhile--but when I say always I mean it. Could be she's figured out these two things and is retaliating by not having sex. Women tend to feel wronged and "unpretty" and just quit. Or, could be that she's cold. In which case I'd tell her she needs to warm up or you are going to continue your extracurricular activities. Give her the choice. P.S. Babies and little kids make women extra tired for a couple of years because someone is always hanging on them. If you have little kids, make a bubble bath for your wife an hour before kid bedtime, tell her to get in it, you handle and put the kids to bed, and maybe she'll feel like it then. Good Luck to You!
2006-12-19 18:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People define cheating differently. Some people define it as an emotional act as well as a physical act and others just define it as a physical act.
Although it's not pertinent that couples are exactly alike, there are obviously some important areas in a relationship which help uplift it rather than hinder it. And this type of topic can be one of those things
it's difficult to keep the romance alive and a relationship on a positive note if you're unable to work in unity with your spouse. Especially if one of you defines cheating in one way and the other defines cheating in another way.
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Some women consider cheating to be a secret that is kept from them. For instance, their spouse has a dinner date with another woman, but doesn't bother to mention it.
Whether this situation is considered cheating depends on the relationship you have with your partner and the type of friendships you have outside of your partnership.
Since the pendulum can swing either way it's best to make certain you both see eye-to-eye before it ever happens (if it ever does). Maybe you don't think it's important to mention it because it doesn't mean anything and mentioning it would give it more weight than it's worth, but it's best not to assume something like that but to talk it over instead.
The reason for that is because, on the contrary, some women feel that if it was so unimportant, then why not just mention it. It's a catch-22 situation. So, a constructive way to handle a circumstance like that it to discuss it with one another before it ever has a chance to occur.
fantasy creeps in and your partner feels mistreated or upset due to the act of disregarding her and making it clear you would like to have sex with the person in your sights.
Under those conditions, it can turn into a huge problem for the relationship. Of course, it's one thing to notice someone's beauty from time to time, but the "roaming eye" is another thing altogether. It can lead to insecurity issues, trust issues, and sometimes result in actual physical cheating
2006-12-19 18:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by veerabhadrasarma m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating has to be defined within the relationship. What is cheating to me may not be cheating to you. Some people have open relationships and some people are completely exclusive.
Personally, I would consider cuddling, kissing, holding hands, and obviously sex of any kind cheating. I don't know that I would consider watching porn cheating but it would annoy me.
2006-12-19 18:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Holly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Occasional porn, Nope. Prostitutes, YES and ewww. I'd talk to your wife perhaps a change of style or venue.
2006-12-19 18:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watching naked images moving in the screen..i won consider dat as cheating. but..really..u guys are only 30..unless ur wife is like 50, why isnt she interested in sex anymore? you 2 should really tok it out..seek professional for helps..
going to pros not only endanger urself, but ur wife and children ( if u hv any) and its a waste of money.
2006-12-19 18:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with your wife!!!!! if she would be hurt by it then its cheating!!!!if she is ok with you going to a hoar then its ok, I dont consider having sex with another woman cheating in my relationship because my girlfriend is ushualy the one taking photos or running the video camera if she isnt siting on the chicks face while were going at it
2006-12-19 18:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn=NO, Hookers= Come on, man, are you serious? If you are dissatisfied in the bed room, find out what's up with your wife, or try experimenting with different things to spice it up.
2006-12-19 18:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by cna_77381 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is a lot of cheating. but this word only response for love those who are cheated one of theres girl friends r boy friends.
2006-12-19 18:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by sumanth r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watching porn - not cheating but ******* prostitutes def cheating! you need to talk to her
2006-12-19 18:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by Onie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋