I think im in Love with my Best Friends girlfriend. I dont know what to do and how to tell somebody because ether way someones gonna get mad. please give advice.
2006-12-19 18:18:48 · 8 answers · asked by Trevor B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay out of their relationship & if it ends,,then go for it.But probably tell the friend that is your intentions first.Tell him that you never said anything when they were a couple out of respect.Id wait awhile tho for him to move on so that he wont all of a sudden want her back again because you are showing interest.You can be friends with her & be friendly & smile & get a clue if she may find you as interesting.I dont know,,this is a tricky situation.But,,I can relate.When I was younger,,my heart skipped a beat for my bf's best friend.He was already with someone when we met & the 4 of us hung out together but,,I did the right thing & kept it to myself,,well,,we all lost contact thru the years but now I wonder if there could have been more ( he used to be real sweet on me).Is your friend all that into her & she him? lol
2006-12-19 18:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another bird, it it's your best friend, he won't be around any longer after this, so don't tell anyone and move away, no matter the timing or situation friends chics are off limits, and that includes ex and present, so if you plan to have a crack, be prepare to lose both, cause is she's gonna leave with you, she'll leave on the next occasions, so is you best friend worthy to give up so easily??????????????
2006-12-19 18:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by curlyhurlymo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ive been interested in a friends gf and have had the feeling mutual between me and her but in no way shape or form could i act on it b/c its not worth it. NO GIRL (or guy for girls) is worth giving up friends for...a relationship that might not last is not worth a good frienship at all.
2006-12-19 18:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by wcbaseball4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar sistuation
I think i am in love with my sisters best friend but my sister warned me to stay away but her friend keeps flirting with me and i dont want her to stop but dont want to betray my sister.
all i can say is go to your friend first dont go to his girlfriend behind his back cause thats fd up
2006-12-19 18:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me once. i even ended up kissing her at a local park. when i told my friend about it, he was very appreciative of my honesty. so.... if you follow your heart but keep your mouth shut, you have a greater chance of losing a friend. let him know what's going on. if he is a true friend, he will be there for you.
2006-12-19 18:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by wrldzgr8stdad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! um.. it all depends on if his friendship is worth it. if you value your friend you will let him be happy, and well... i cant call u slefish becasue i dont no u, but if is the type to understand ur situation than talk to him about it.
good luck:)
2006-12-19 19:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control your emotions!
Do more extra curriculum or get two jobs and take up more hobbies or something, man...you'll thank yourself for it later-not acting on it!
2006-12-19 18:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid man. He's your boy, don't do that crap. It will be funny when she's gone and so is your best friend....
2006-12-19 18:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** tell no one and stay away from her.
2006-12-19 18:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋