I'm considering going to a topless pool with my g/f, as a guy, in Las Vegas but am worried that their will be old, naked ladies that I do not want to see. My girlfirned *claims* that she doesn't want to go topless (she could just be tricking me and getting into my head) so if we go I will unstrap her bikini as she jumps in the pool. Is this the right thing to do?!? I think she'll find it exciting!!! No harm, n o foul??
It's an honest question to you people. I'ma guy and don't know/understand how girl's think!
Help me out and answer please
2006-12-19 18:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by thank you come again 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The old naked lady that you don't want to see could be your mother... or your wife someday.
The girlfriend that you will surprise by taking off her top will be the fool that dates you and the smart person who dumps you.
She will be the person who is disrespected, humiliated and treated like trash by the immature boyfriend who is supposed to love and cherish her.
Grow up... and if you don't know how girls think then picture this:
You are in a shower room with a bunch of guys and you are made to wear a jock strap around your head while dancing to a Disney tune.
And PLEASE look at your opening question.
Does that make sense to you? What is a topless boob?
And your second sentence.. you're going "as a guy".. lol.. as opposed to what?
Holy God...
2006-12-19 18:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT by any means do anything to your girlfriend EVER that she says she doesn't want/doesn't like.
If she says she doesn't want to go topless, don't you dare try to force or trick her into going topless. Please respect her wishes. You will more than likely get yourself into a lot of trouble if you make her do it against her will.
Also, cut the girl some slack. Be glad she is even letting you go to a topless pool at all! Maybe after hanging out for a while she'll get into it and change her mind but for now you should just leave it up to her to decide.
-Holly
www.iconfessional.com
2006-12-19 18:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should respect her and her decision. She already "*claims* that she doesn't want to go topless" and you are just guessing otherwise. No, it is, to me, not the right thing to do because you are not respecting her as well as her rights. It is you who think "No harm, n o foul" on your part, not she. You could end up in a lot of trouble with the law if she seriously does not want to go topless as she already "*claims*". God bless you!
2006-12-19 18:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women masking themselves is going each and all the in the past to Adam and Eve and the fig leaves. as properly, women loves outfits. they like to gown up or down in accordance to their life or events. With lots of beautiful outfits accessible why might any clever woman prefer to bypass topless. Watch the 'purple carpet' at society socials. women comprehend in simple terms how lots to exhibit themselves and be concept beautiful and on the comparable time nevertheless proceed to be a seductress.
2016-12-30 16:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by schneir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey heyy,
Personally, that would be a verrry degrading and embarassing thing to do to your girlfriend. Going against her will (esp. in public when nudity is involved) is a humongous no no. You must respect her wishes, or you will be the only guy in the pool - swimming with topless oldies.
Think twice. Maybe three times.
Best of luck.
2006-12-19 18:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you bump your head, son...don't get your girl angry!? However, if she is wanting to go to this topless pool, perhaps she'll take it off on her own with a little encouraging by you...
2006-12-19 18:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You beleive in a picture perfect life, don't you? just be yourself when you're with your girl and get slapped when you deserve to.
2006-12-19 18:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by pakir poyum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she says she doesnt want to go topless, she may be serious.........you might want to think about that......if you do that you could be risking getting smacked.........or worse
2006-12-19 18:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all women. I wouldn't like that and I haven't had a ugly minute. lol
2006-12-19 18:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋