There is a girl named Hayley that dumped me a while back (in February) and now she hates me. I want her back.

Question

I know i didn't call enough and when I did I didn't have much to say because i was afraid I would say something bad. Our relationship was falling out of the sky near January and then, when I had a chance to fix it on Valentines Day, I didn't try. It was the biggest mistake ever. I worry that she is talking bad about me in class, and i can't stop looking at her, I never get caught by her, but sometimes by her friends. I dream about getting together again, but I need help horribly. I'm just afraid that she will say something bad to me if I try to be friendly. I can never get her alone to talk to her without her friends saying crap to me. I wonder if she would be different without her friends but I don't know. (It might also help to let you know this is NOT an old guy im in 8th grade so that hopefully will make it easier to get her back.) I love her. I want her. But if one person says something bad to her... she'll hate me more. (I'd prefer help from girls since it fits.)

Answer 1

8Th grade .What wonderful time . Except when your in love . I can see your a shy person . Not much of a talker . Thinks the right stuff , but finds it hard to execute it . Mmmmm . Girl breaks up with boy . Boy is still in love with girl . What we have here is a broken heart . YOURS ! Back off for awhile . Give her some time to think about why she broke up with you . Try to see another girl . Believe me when your ex sees you with another girl she will sit up and take notice . If she looks your way just smile and wave . If by chance you find your self in a position where you can talk to her just keep it simple . Just say hi and how she is doing . Make sure you break off the conversation first . Don't stand around like a dog begging for a bone . Say your good by and leave . This way she will think that you might have something better to do then talk to her . Be friendly , kind and alert . Don't worry about what people say . You know you are doing and saying the right thing . If she believes every thing other people say then she is not grown up enough for you . 8 th grade has two tons of girls in it . If all else fails . Just pick up a new one . You will have a lot of girl friends in the next four years of high school . Good Luck !

Answer 2

do you know how hard it is to keep a relationship when you go to army after school?

my advice. since you know it is very difficult to communicate with her, there is a problem already. have your own free time when you can really analyse carefully the problems.

there are lots and lots of girls out there waiting for commitment.

same to guys.

it is when you found out your problem of communication and how to deal with the different feelings in a relationship then you can find another girl, best after army.

ps: if you ever decide to find a gf, have an early plan of how to save up and how to plan for the future as your gf will be your wife in future, not just a test trial female friend.

of course, you can have normale female friends but it is best to have a distance with them as there are feelings involved.

ps: do not have a love triangle, as it hurts a lot.

and good luck!

mercury of love

Answer 3

Well, if you're old enough to be in love, you're old enough to act like a man.Be honest,approach her,and for better or worse,share your feelings.